"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Give some suggestion to deal with this girl who added me on fb

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Long story short, I toke part on a motorbike festival few weeks ago and above the "famous pictures" from that event there is one of me wheeling after some smoke, a badass picture actually.

So this girl a solid 8 probably found me somehow interesting (disrespect of danger as pre-selection) and added me on fb.
At first I knew it was probably nothing so I kept it short and cold asking who she was etc, she said that she saw the picture and tought she knew me from that day (bvllsh1t cause I would have remember her).

So I spoke with her a little bit more on fb chat but keeping it to the essential, plenty of open answer questions from her, she works as a barman in a hotel so the weekend she is working, however she give a positive responce when I suggested to meet on weekdays.

Suggestions or indication? better yet explain me why you would do something or avoid something else.

Field report coming once done but first need some feedbacks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'll be asking it next week just to avoid disappearing for two weeks in a row.

Right now Im busy with the preparation of an other motorbike event and have no chance to go city, I have plenty of time here and there but not enough continous to take a full day off.
 

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UPDATE: a new brand attention wh0ring

Gentlemen its with great pleasure that I inform you about a new proactive way of attention wh0ring.

No longer girls enjoy those guys who pay them attention while on their everyday activities, the craving for attention now even push them to actively search for orbits.

So this girl from the first post, after some brief communication ( 3-4 messages) I asked how she was and to give me her number.

She replied that she was fine but completely ignored the number request...as if it wasnt there.

No big deal since the whole things looked unproductive to me, out of curiosity I started checking her pictures to know more about her and found out that all she does it uploading pictures and getting likes, then I realized what she was looking for.

She willingly hunt and add guys who she consider desired from women only to get them as orbiter for her validation directly through the likes and indirectly by showing other people how desired she is.

Among the guys in her "like list" you can find the cop, the athlete, the artist all those types that usually are desired from girls...no ugly or geeky guys among her friends.

Needless to say she got nothing out of me and if she doesnt give something in the next week by her own initiative I'll be leaving this svcker game and delete her.
 
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Congratulations Who Dare Wins! You are not ugly or geeky!

I wonder how many orbiters she has...1000's?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I get this some times. I never add anyone I don't know though. Could just be a troll.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
Congratulations Who Dare Wins! You are not ugly or geeky!

I wonder how many orbiters she has...1000's?
Thanks mate but I knew it before ;)

Regarding the people she has its impossible to say since her friend list is hidden, however she gets about 50-60 likes for any random picture she adds so I suppose more than a few hundreds.

seethehoop said:
I get this some times. I never add anyone I don't know though. Could just be a troll.
I added her mostly because of social proof, other girls dont know how comes that we added each other recently.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I added her mostly because of social proof, other girls dont know how comes that we added each other recently.
you attention Wh0re you LOL
 

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Forget what I said I've been a paranoid dumbass (probably also because of this site), her interest was genuine and we had a date, nothing physical but her behaviour was great she also arrived few minutes early, feminine and gentle and provided probably 60% of the conversation.
 

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recently I've noticed, when meeting women online, they are not so quick to give out the number any longer.

usually after the first date you get it though.

Did you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pdx1138 said:
recently I've noticed, when meeting women online, they are not so quick to give out the number any longer.

usually after the first date you get it though.

Did you?
You go to the first date without a number?
 

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pdx1138 said:
recently I've noticed, when meeting women online, they are not so quick to give out the number any longer.

usually after the first date you get it though.

Did you?
I got her online one day and asked for the number which she gave me then I called her and we settled the date.

Frankly Im surprised that such good looking girl is not the market and so available to me...dont see any trick yet but probably she has a c0ck...
 
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