Give me your opening line you have used on a cold approach!

[spiegel549]

Whats happening guys. Been making some killer cold approaches now that summer is in full swing. Beautiful women walking by in the malls, the street, the beach, I stop every single one I am attracted to and try different opening lines. Some successful with a follow up number close, some I completely tanked haha.

Now obviously each opener is going to be situational, but what are some good cold approach openers you have used on a broad that got her attention?

I recently tried "wow I couldn't help but notice just how attractive you are...you look so different then any other woman I'v seen...." A few girls there jaw dropped and got beat red....some were like "yeah yeah whatever" lol.


Lets share some good ones for the summer that can be used!

 

[compleks]

Tell them you just deleted tinder and now you have to approach girls in real life.

Or tell them how different they look when they are awake.

 

[Huffman]

Crazy openers are like Jabs in Boxing. You throw one and it will surprise the opponent for a bit, but it's not very powerful on its own. You GOT TO rush in there and follow up immediately, before that defense goes back up! You don't just throw the opener and hope it does the job for you, just as you don't throw a single Jab and then pause to see if it did anything.

Same with convo. It doesn't really matter what she replies to the opener, just keep saying stuff and try to transition into a real conversation as quickly as possible. Don't do this:

"Hey there, (crazy line) (neg hit)!"
-"Oh that's so funny/weird/creepy!"
-"Yeah, uhm."
(she turns away again)

I really like GettinMyMindRight's post, note how the important thing isn't the line but the follow-up. He shakes hands and introduces himself, which will get the group to officially acknowledge him (although grudginly at first, if they are stuck up b!tches). So he's now part of the group and can start developing convo that is actually interesting.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Someone posted something a while ago about going out solo and saying you just took your mother out for her bday and she left early so you just stayed out for a couple more rounds.

I really like that approach, i'm dying to try it.... next chance I get for sure.

 

[gravityeyelids]

I think people try way too hard on these clever opening lines for cold approaches. I agree with Huffman, in that you could have the most crazy, clever, cute opening line in history, but if your follow up and body language and appearance aren't congruent...she's just going to be entertained for a few seconds and then very quickly disappointed when she realizes you cant follow through with your big talk.

Not only that...but if you're not congruent then they are going to realize how try hard you are with these opening lines. Sure it's clever, but it comes off as try hard because she is going to realize that you put way too much thought into the line and planning the approach instead of just making it a spontaneous and fun conversation.

I've heard of guys having massive success with simple, direct lines such as "Hey, i thought you looked cute/interesting and I wanted to come meet you". Boom. Humble yet confident and direct, straightforward. As long as you're not super awkward, she'd have to be a complete b!tch to ignore you after that. And if she is, then you've sorted out a bad apple that you wouldnt want to get to know anyway.

I'm kind of sick of these overly clever lines, in case you couldn't tell. I would imagine that if she community spent half as much time working on body language and conversational follow-up skills and going for the close as these overly-thought out lines, then we'd be a lot better off overall. Not only that...but you start to rely on having a clever line to the point where you talk yourself out of approaching if you dont have the perfect thing to say in a circumstance where you probably could've just walked up and said "hello" and went on to date/bang that chick.

Just find a simple, universal line that works in a number of circumstances such as the one I listed and get out there and get used to approaching. Either that or comment on something in the environment you're at. Opinion openers on clothes and shoes are money. Ask her what she thinks of the shirt you're trying on. Boom. Easy. Nearly every girl in existence will be more than happy to give advice such as that. From that point just make it fun and flirty.

 

[Huffman]

"Hey, i thought you looked cute/interesting and I wanted to come meet you".

Dito! If she doesn't blow you off straight away, she's basically affirming that you the two of you want to meet. I've actually had the girl take over the convo from me at that point, trying to find out about me!

Thing is, here you don't need a transition. If you just comment on her shoes or the weather, you're talking about a random thing out of nowhere.

Example: some months ago, I was at this party, it was late and I was drunk. Some soft rock dance-with-your-girl song starts playing, and this random girl asks me out of nowhere:
"You're intimidated by this song arent you!"
My reaction: "Huh? Um, well no not really."
Her: "Alright." *pause* walks away.

A neg hit par excellence! Of course she wanted to indirectly tell me that she'd to talk&dance with me. Had she been more direct, or followed up in any way, we might have had a great night! I was smashed and only noticed later, fail! But see - even though I wanted to meet girls, she delivered the line so unsuccessfully that I barely even noticed her