"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Give Me Your Advice Please

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Here's the deal. I am fairly successful with females. However. There may be something that you (meaning people that I am asking advice from) may know that would be able to help me achieve the results I am looking for.

I was in this ballroom dancing class in college. I had developed a pretty healthy peer group and upon my first day in the class I wore a "fabulous" shirt and unintentionally made a great impression on the females in the class. The prettiest girl in the class asked me to be her partner. But I had already promised the most popular girl to be her partner. I was the alpha male in the class. Coupled with the alpha female in the class we made a pretty outstanding duo. There was this girl that had this bangin' body that was attracted to me in the class. Later on. (And I am skipping ahead here) she begged me to **** her. And then thanked me after.

I have recently moved to another city. And she has recently started steadily dating a dude. She is the type of girl where she wouldn't mind screwing around on him without him knowing. But I am getting the feel that I am moving into the dreaded "friend zone". She talks to me on facebook instant messenger all the time. I am wanting to get her to **** me again. I want to **** her again. ****ing is "harmless fun". She wouldn't mind to do it. But I want to inspire that same level of attraction that I initially created. Advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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COD

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spin more plates, dude she is long distance.............if she visits U, have sex........but move on already. Long distace gets expensive........Your young and there will be 100 other super hot chics in your life that live near u.

get all gaa gaa over one of the chics that live closer to U.
 

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spin more plates, dude she is long distance.............if she visits U, have sex........but move on already. Long distace gets expensive........Your young and there will be 100 other super hot chics in your life that live near u.

get all gaa gaa over one of the chics that live closer to U.
 
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