"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Give me some suggestions for this scenerio, wwyd

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"someone" is home from college this weekend after i got her digits a week ago. I'm going to call her and see whats up. Depending on how i feel her over the phone i might ask we hang out/chill, what should i suggest we do? What would YOU do in this situation. I'm not an idiot of a bum i just want activity suggestions, maybe you guys are more creative. thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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whatever you do, go in with a plan. I'd be willing to bet that there's a convenient Starbucks somewhere nearby. Maybe, you'll be lucky enough to be near to a Starbucks that's attached to a Barnes & Noble. That's the ultimate cheap date for someone slightly intellectual. Go grab some coffee and check out some books, magazines, games, etc.

If no B&N, then grab the coffee and go for a walk around a park and just generally do the stuff you know is gonna get more interest. I shouldn't have to tell you but make sure you get lots of kino in; thumb wrestling, touching of the shoulder, arm, hand, whatever. Be casual, make her laugh. You know the drill.
 
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JJ that is an amazing idea. Thanks I will try it out.
 
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