"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Give me some suggestions for this scenerio, wwyd

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"someone" is home from college this weekend after i got her digits a week ago. I'm going to call her and see whats up. Depending on how i feel her over the phone i might ask we hang out/chill, what should i suggest we do? What would YOU do in this situation. I'm not an idiot of a bum i just want activity suggestions, maybe you guys are more creative. thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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whatever you do, go in with a plan. I'd be willing to bet that there's a convenient Starbucks somewhere nearby. Maybe, you'll be lucky enough to be near to a Starbucks that's attached to a Barnes & Noble. That's the ultimate cheap date for someone slightly intellectual. Go grab some coffee and check out some books, magazines, games, etc.

If no B&N, then grab the coffee and go for a walk around a park and just generally do the stuff you know is gonna get more interest. I shouldn't have to tell you but make sure you get lots of kino in; thumb wrestling, touching of the shoulder, arm, hand, whatever. Be casual, make her laugh. You know the drill.
 

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JJ that is an amazing idea. Thanks I will try it out.
 
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