"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Give me some stuff to read lol.

B012

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All of my other posts on this forum have been about this one girl that i guess i have had one-itis over for almost 1 and a half years. A friend ended up telling her that i liked her and she bassically said that she had already suspected i did and for a lot of personal reasons she really didnt want to be/couldnt be in a relationship atm. I wont post specifics (which she did tell me) but i know she is telling the truth.

What she also told me though was that a few of her friends find me cute and two were actually commenting on my "attractiveness" recently. I would have considered them way out of my league lol but i guess not? I dont even know anymore haha, i guess i have poor self image and im quite shy = S. Anyway does anyone have any suggestions of anything i should read or just any advice in general? I remember something about book of pook or something?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Its not gonna do sh1t for you unless you just go enjoy real life.
Its a normal pattern to just come here and read for ages, and then finally doing something, and regretting wasting all that time.
 

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Yeah take it from me, reading can really fvck u up sometimes. However remember these: 1. NO WOMAN IS OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE! All women are your women(Not really all but you get the essence).
2.Be comfortable in your own skin and everything will fall into place.
3. Come as you are, be honest with them and and watch them fall for you.
4. You are a man, therefore you should lead.
5. Don't worry whether you are doing something right or wrong, atleast you are taking action. Because what may seem like crappy game can work wonders for someone else and otherwise.
 
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