"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SuperChillies

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I see a chick return smile..I walk up to her and with a smile and I stopped her

ME: "hold up baby girl, I had to stop you .. You have the cutest smile/ ( or most beautiful eyes).."


ME: "I have to get to know the girl with the cute smile, whats your name ?"

HER: hb10

ME: "you headed this, mind if I chit-chat with you to that store"

HER: okay

ME: "How are you doing today?"

HER: Blab, blab

ME" "HOws your day in the mall going ? "

HER: Blab , Blab

ME: "where you from ?(or which school you goto)"

HER: townone

ME: "oh realy..how do you like there, I used to live up there a while back?"
(oh really, I used to goto that school....how do you like it in that school?")

HERE; Blab,blabh

ME: Listen, girl...You sound like a cool chick, we should talk sometime (we should have coffee sometime), whats your number ?"

this is just my ideal attempt, not actually done in reallity..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Play the Game

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Best approaches are usually situational. You're not looking to get anything out of it. You're just being FRIENDLY.
But if you don't know that, then you're not in shape to even start doing approaches. You'll just get shot down, and depressed.

You have to be friendly and social to do these kinds of approaches. Start off by talking to random people and being friendly get your confidence, then approach.

I've never actually attempted to stop someone. If i'm going somewhere i don't want to be bothered. Don't care how hot the chick is.
Plus its creepy.

There's exceptions though, if she gives huge IOIs when you're walking past her. But it all should b natural.
 

Monaco

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Gahhh, don't call her babygirl, this isnt 2 FAZT 2 FURIOUZ.

Other then that, listen to Play the Game and do what he says.
 

The Shocker

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stop with the black speak unless you are black, she is black and you are in Compton.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CrunchyNut

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Dear God...did you actually say babygirl?!?

Other than that, kudos for approaching. Like apocalypse said though you need to neg someone that hot, or at least C+F them.
 

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Ratisson

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guys, guys, guys, those who responded to this post must know that at the end of superchillies thread he said that "this is my ideal attempt, not actually done in reality. Dumbest post ive ever read. whats this forum coming to?
 

Monaco

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Ratisson said:
guys, guys, guys, those who responded to this post must know that at the end of superchillies thread he said that "this is my ideal attempt, not actually done in reality. Dumbest post ive ever read. whats this forum coming to?
whatever its coming to, it isn't good. :trouble:
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Hey Ratisson, don't be so hard on him. He just wants feedback if that would be a good scenario to go from. He's gonna approach, but he wants advice from us of how the conversation is going to be before he gets out there. If it helps him get out there...then more power to help him out.

But yea, some of this forum is getting wackier and wackier when i see of it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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