"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bling

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This girl is popular, has a funny nose, cute, dyes/highlights/lowlights/whatever her hair. Half her hair is dark, and the other half is blonde. Has a big ass.


She always calls me Eugene (cuz I told her that was my name... and now it's become her only power she has over me), and I always give her dirty looks whenever she talks to me. I really want to put her in her place with a good neg hit.


Examples?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bob88

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"I really like your [shirt,shoes,necklace, anything she has on her basically] its [cute/nice/pretty, etc.]"

Pause for a couple of seconds and then follow up with "I think I saw my grandma wear that once"

That one is pretty old but it works wonders dude. I like using that when I meet new girls.

It also works sometimes to knock off another alpha male only if you use it the right way and people end up laughing at it.
 

oakraiderz2

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Tell her that her nose wiggles when she laughs.
 

Nzo

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One i always likes is pointing out something really pointless and stupid like "You Blink to much" or "Eww you just spat on me" while yall r talking
 

OfficeSpace

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I dunno... But from my experience, women love being complimented. It's liek they feed off of it. Couldn't a girl take this the wrong way and interpret it as an insult? I mean I've met a lot of girls that are pretty slow in the head!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well if you say it flat out like an insult sure she could take it wrong, say it in a joking way and make sure she knows your joking
 

phatboi408

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When you say a compliment she thinks someone who is trying to be nice to me and loves(yeah right she wants to see if your an afc so she "tests" you), but then you neg hit right after that you catch your off guard and then she will want you more because your playing games with her and you also pass her "test".A girl can detirmine if you are powerful(alpha male) by testing you so they do it with out us knowing and most of the time the girl doesnt know it because girls have been doing that forever and its just there.
 
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