"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MotoXXX

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Okay here is a question that has been eating at me. Not really a question I guess but more like a theory. What if you are working a chick, and she doesnt want to give you her number, but there is definetly attraction to you form her, and all you want to do is sleep with her. How about giving her your number so you are now her booty call? That way you know if she calls you all that she wants to do is Fvck your brains out? This is a theory I have, becuase alot of times I give up trying to Fvck close a chick, but I would like to fvck the sh!t out of her, and can sense alot of physical attraction out of her, but her morales take over her and she doesnt feel right about taking a guy home or vice versus the first night she met him? I think I am gonna try it just wondering what everyone else thinks about this theory
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Here's what I think... Giving your number to her puts her in control of contacting you, when it should be you who should be in control of contacting her. If she doesn't want to give you her number, then she probably isn't as attracted as you might think. Rework your game and try number closing her again. If you can't get her number, what makes you think she will let you in her pants? hehe

Good luck bro!
 

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NeonBase said:
If you can't get her number, what makes you think she will let you in her pants?
Two things to think about here...

IF she asks you for your number before you have asked for hers, then IT'S ON!

If she asks you for your number AFTER you have asked hers, then don't even bother giving it to her. She aint gonna call. Don't give her the power. Instead, do the back turn on her, make her feel that you are willing to walk away from her and she may never see you again. That will make her want to see you again and will probably turn the situation around.
 

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Espi said:
NEVER give your number...as the bro says, you give up control...if it;s on, she'll give you her number. Simple as that.

When a girl asks for my number, I say, "I don't feel comfortable giving my number to strange women. Too many women psychos, you know?"
Yes, according to normal protocol preached on this site, but sometimes in order to accomplish your mission you'll have to operate outside box and disregard a lot of rules.

I agree with Fash, if she ask for your number before you've asked hers then it's on but if she ask for yours after you've asked her don't give it to her.

I use to go around number closing chicks all the time until I realized that getting numerous numbers only congested my phone plus I never got around to calling all the girls anyway.

On one occasion, this girl was begging me to take her number but I decline instead I was willing to give mine to her and she told "I don't call men, they call me". I said "Then we're just going to be some non calling each other mother Fcukers cause i don't really call women either". She eventually broke and was about to take mine until we realized we had something more in common which caused us to revert from that situation but that's another story to be told at some other time.
 
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Honestly, I see no right or wrong answer to this. I do it both ways, but moreso of me giving her my number, and honestly... I find giving women my number gives the best results. I can think of more pros of me giving her my number then pros of me getting her number.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I gave number to girls before and theres no problem, better to have come chance than none at all.
 

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Just have a spare number and give that one if you feel unconfortable giving your number,just for the "you never know" cases.
 

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I dont feel uncomfortable giving my number out, but I am in the same situation as the guy who said that his phone is cluttered!!! I get all these numbers, but to be honest guys, I dont want a relationship. I just wanna work my game on these chicks and fvck at the very instant they cant resist me. I get alot of chicks numbers but find myself looking through my phone and asking myself who the FVCK is that?!! you cant work anything if you cant put a name to a face. I sometimes take thier picture, or put a foot note next to thier name in my phone to remember them. Like I said though, this is merely mentioned to be some fine a$$ chicks booty call.
 

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dump the phones phonebook and buy a little black phonebook and write in there with notes and what not.
 

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MotoXXX said:
I dont feel uncomfortable giving my number out, but I am in the same situation as the guy who said that his phone is cluttered!!! I get all these numbers, but to be honest guys, I dont want a relationship. I just wanna work my game on these chicks and fvck at the very instant they cant resist me. I get alot of chicks numbers but find myself looking through my phone and asking myself who the FVCK is that?!! you cant work anything if you cant put a name to a face. I sometimes take thier picture, or put a foot note next to thier name in my phone to remember them. Like I said though, this is merely mentioned to be some fine a$$ chicks booty call.
Question.
How does a girl tell you she doesn't want to give you her number? I'm serious If I'm working a girl then getting a number should be natural. If you have a good thing going then why wouldn't she want to give you her number? Typically when two people like each other then they want to see each other again and telephones are the best way of accomplishing this.

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If you get alot of numbers then you need to clean out your cell phone from time to time. I have 50 numbers in my phone but if I didn't clean it out at least every other month, that number cold very easily be 200. This is especially true if you can't even remember what the girl looks like or where you met her or even why this name is in your phone in the first place. Alot of those names are just taking up space and the days of the "little black book" as a trophy are long over in this era of the modern player.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i think of it like this a few girls have given me their number sometimes i lose them sometimes i just don't call so it is usually a good idea to get their number so you can think do i want to do this girl or not thats my process
 

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I give numbers out to girls whom i talk to for warmups.
 
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