Desdinova
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While you're dating a woman, there are two gifts you can give her that can have such a lasting impact that they eventually become curses.
The Gift of Missing You
We all know that giving a woman the gift of missing you is essential for maintaining her interest in you. When you DON'T shower her with attention, you end up getting stuck in her brain. When you're too busy for her, she will not only think about you, she will fantasize about you. Women love to create fantasies that they can live out in their brain. Not only has she previously thought about her wedding day and having children, but she's fantasizing what it would be like to have both of those things with YOU. Giving her the gift of missing you gives her the time and energy to increase your value in HER mind. She NEEDS to fantasize about you to keep her interest in you active. She will also come up with her own drama in her mind. Drama is part of the fantasy. What if another woman hits on you while you're gone? She will fight that bytch to her very death! You are only for her!
So what happens when the two of you break up? Should you be trying to resolve whatever issue she's having with you? Should you apologize and convince her that you're the right man for her? Of course not. Cut the rope and move on. Give her the gift of missing you again. This time you never come back to see how much she enjoyed the gift. It's going to sit on a shelf in her brain. She is still going to think about you. After her next BF has showered her with constant attention, she's going to look at that gift of missing you on the shelf in her brain. She's going to remember those fantasies she had about you. She's going to think about you again. She's going to have a moment of pleasure remembering all those fantasies. She may as well engrave your name onto her vibrator. That gift you left her is not going to go away.
So what if she's the one who broke up with you???
That doesn't matter. Women can and WILL make decisions in the moment of their emotions. An ex-boyfriend may have contacted her who also gave her the gift of missing him. Perhaps an old high school crush came across her path; yet another person who she fantasized about. Sometimes women don't want the guilt of being a cheater, so they break up with their man. They have already justified the break up through their own illogical emotional rationale. They don't think about the consequences of the gift until it's too late. At this point, that gift is all they have left of you.
This is when the gift turns into a curse. Those thoughts and fantasies about you can no longer materialize because you're not in the picture. Now she's stuck with the CURSE of missing you. The curse has no defined length of time. It all depends on how much time and energy she put into fantasizing about you when you were gone. Her emotional fluctuation may actually increase her desire for you at this point. She will wonder if you were "the one". She will wonder how she'll feel if the two of you should cross paths again. She will start comparing any future relationship endeavours to how she feels about YOU. The gift you gave her is not only a curse for her, but it's also a curse for any man who dates her.
The Gift of Orgasm
I honestly never used to put much importance on the impact a woman's orgasm can have on her. Over time, I've learned how important it actually is. When she gives herself an orgasm using a vibrator, it's her method of fulfilling a fantasy. When YOU give her an orgasm, she sees it as having a spiritual connection with you.
Giving a woman pleasure in the bedroom is an essential gift to reinforce the emotional imprint you have on her brain. If you aren't well versed in how to manipulate the cl1torus to give her an orgasm (which in turn spiritually connects her to your actions), you NEED to learn how. You NEED to practise. You NEED to pay attention to how she reacts to the attention you give her cl1torus. Once you learn, you NEED to hold back your own sexual pleasure and tend to hers first. Make her orgasm before you do.
Women will vary with how long it takes for them to come to orgasm. Some of them will orgasm very quickly. Others take longer. Some won't come to orgasm at all. If you can bring a woman to orgasm at least once, you'll be able to do it again and again because you know what works. She will feel a spiritual connection to you because you're actually paying attention to how her body reacts to the attention you're giving her cl1torus. After you've brought her to orgasm, That's when you can just pull out your d1ck and blast her vagina. You don't have to take your time either. She's already made her spiritual connection with you, so it won't matter if you're done in 45 seconds. She may even have another orgasm while you're getting yourself off.
So what happens when you and her break up?
The gift you gave her of orgasm isn't going to affect her in the short term. That's what the gift of missing you is for. The gift of orgasm is going to affect her once she's made an attempt to move on from you. She's looking for the same kind of spiritual connection she had with you, but attempts to have it with her new BF instead. The good news is the common man is selfish. He wants to show her a good time by blasting her vagina with cvm, because he believes that getting himself off convinces her that he's "the one". Nothing can be further from the truth. Because she was able to make a spiritual connection with you through orgasm, she's going to try and get him to do the same thing. She will ask him to go down on her. She will ask him to fondle her. Because he's selfish, he's going to use his finger like piston in a cylinder. She's going to go dry and tell him to stop. It doesn't take long to realize that there won't be any spiritual connection with this man.
At this point, the gift of orgasm becomes a curse. She will go through life looking for that spiritual connection she had with you. She will fvck other men who think that the vagina is just a cylinder for a piston. If she wants to experience the joy of orgasm again, she will pull out her trusty vibrator and re-live the fantasy of making a connection with you. That is her only option at this point.
Now put these two gifts together. Both of them will become a curse for her. She will long for that spiritual connection. She will long for that man she still fantasizes about. What you've essentially done is planted a raspberry bush in her yard. That raspberry bush is a monument of what a great man you were and it will always be there to remind her of you. A year later, you are no longer with her. However, she still admires the raspberry bush you planted in her yard. She looks a bit closer and realizes another raspberry bush has popped up out of the ground! She accepts the fact that she now has two raspberry bushes to remind her of you. She will keep returning to the bush to partake in the joy of fresh raspberries. As the years go by, the raspberry bushes have spread across her yard. There are many. She has removed a few, but she still wants to keep some around. Every year she needs to tend to these bushes to keep them under control. However, there is never any full control over them.
That is how a woman obsesses over you. These gifts are a raspberry bush. They continue to dominate her mind over the years. They continue to have a passive, yet continuous control over her life. She will never fully get rid of them. They become a curse. She loves raspberries. She loves this monument you planted in her yard. She will try and control the bushes to some extent. New men will come into her life and never plant a raspberry bush in her yard. Instead, they lament over how she refuses to get rid of the raspberry bush you planted.
He asks, "Why don't you get rid of that fvcking raspberry bush?"
"Because I like raspberries", she responds.
The Gift of Missing You
We all know that giving a woman the gift of missing you is essential for maintaining her interest in you. When you DON'T shower her with attention, you end up getting stuck in her brain. When you're too busy for her, she will not only think about you, she will fantasize about you. Women love to create fantasies that they can live out in their brain. Not only has she previously thought about her wedding day and having children, but she's fantasizing what it would be like to have both of those things with YOU. Giving her the gift of missing you gives her the time and energy to increase your value in HER mind. She NEEDS to fantasize about you to keep her interest in you active. She will also come up with her own drama in her mind. Drama is part of the fantasy. What if another woman hits on you while you're gone? She will fight that bytch to her very death! You are only for her!
So what happens when the two of you break up? Should you be trying to resolve whatever issue she's having with you? Should you apologize and convince her that you're the right man for her? Of course not. Cut the rope and move on. Give her the gift of missing you again. This time you never come back to see how much she enjoyed the gift. It's going to sit on a shelf in her brain. She is still going to think about you. After her next BF has showered her with constant attention, she's going to look at that gift of missing you on the shelf in her brain. She's going to remember those fantasies she had about you. She's going to think about you again. She's going to have a moment of pleasure remembering all those fantasies. She may as well engrave your name onto her vibrator. That gift you left her is not going to go away.
So what if she's the one who broke up with you???
That doesn't matter. Women can and WILL make decisions in the moment of their emotions. An ex-boyfriend may have contacted her who also gave her the gift of missing him. Perhaps an old high school crush came across her path; yet another person who she fantasized about. Sometimes women don't want the guilt of being a cheater, so they break up with their man. They have already justified the break up through their own illogical emotional rationale. They don't think about the consequences of the gift until it's too late. At this point, that gift is all they have left of you.
This is when the gift turns into a curse. Those thoughts and fantasies about you can no longer materialize because you're not in the picture. Now she's stuck with the CURSE of missing you. The curse has no defined length of time. It all depends on how much time and energy she put into fantasizing about you when you were gone. Her emotional fluctuation may actually increase her desire for you at this point. She will wonder if you were "the one". She will wonder how she'll feel if the two of you should cross paths again. She will start comparing any future relationship endeavours to how she feels about YOU. The gift you gave her is not only a curse for her, but it's also a curse for any man who dates her.
The Gift of Orgasm
I honestly never used to put much importance on the impact a woman's orgasm can have on her. Over time, I've learned how important it actually is. When she gives herself an orgasm using a vibrator, it's her method of fulfilling a fantasy. When YOU give her an orgasm, she sees it as having a spiritual connection with you.
Giving a woman pleasure in the bedroom is an essential gift to reinforce the emotional imprint you have on her brain. If you aren't well versed in how to manipulate the cl1torus to give her an orgasm (which in turn spiritually connects her to your actions), you NEED to learn how. You NEED to practise. You NEED to pay attention to how she reacts to the attention you give her cl1torus. Once you learn, you NEED to hold back your own sexual pleasure and tend to hers first. Make her orgasm before you do.
Women will vary with how long it takes for them to come to orgasm. Some of them will orgasm very quickly. Others take longer. Some won't come to orgasm at all. If you can bring a woman to orgasm at least once, you'll be able to do it again and again because you know what works. She will feel a spiritual connection to you because you're actually paying attention to how her body reacts to the attention you're giving her cl1torus. After you've brought her to orgasm, That's when you can just pull out your d1ck and blast her vagina. You don't have to take your time either. She's already made her spiritual connection with you, so it won't matter if you're done in 45 seconds. She may even have another orgasm while you're getting yourself off.
So what happens when you and her break up?
The gift you gave her of orgasm isn't going to affect her in the short term. That's what the gift of missing you is for. The gift of orgasm is going to affect her once she's made an attempt to move on from you. She's looking for the same kind of spiritual connection she had with you, but attempts to have it with her new BF instead. The good news is the common man is selfish. He wants to show her a good time by blasting her vagina with cvm, because he believes that getting himself off convinces her that he's "the one". Nothing can be further from the truth. Because she was able to make a spiritual connection with you through orgasm, she's going to try and get him to do the same thing. She will ask him to go down on her. She will ask him to fondle her. Because he's selfish, he's going to use his finger like piston in a cylinder. She's going to go dry and tell him to stop. It doesn't take long to realize that there won't be any spiritual connection with this man.
At this point, the gift of orgasm becomes a curse. She will go through life looking for that spiritual connection she had with you. She will fvck other men who think that the vagina is just a cylinder for a piston. If she wants to experience the joy of orgasm again, she will pull out her trusty vibrator and re-live the fantasy of making a connection with you. That is her only option at this point.
Now put these two gifts together. Both of them will become a curse for her. She will long for that spiritual connection. She will long for that man she still fantasizes about. What you've essentially done is planted a raspberry bush in her yard. That raspberry bush is a monument of what a great man you were and it will always be there to remind her of you. A year later, you are no longer with her. However, she still admires the raspberry bush you planted in her yard. She looks a bit closer and realizes another raspberry bush has popped up out of the ground! She accepts the fact that she now has two raspberry bushes to remind her of you. She will keep returning to the bush to partake in the joy of fresh raspberries. As the years go by, the raspberry bushes have spread across her yard. There are many. She has removed a few, but she still wants to keep some around. Every year she needs to tend to these bushes to keep them under control. However, there is never any full control over them.
That is how a woman obsesses over you. These gifts are a raspberry bush. They continue to dominate her mind over the years. They continue to have a passive, yet continuous control over her life. She will never fully get rid of them. They become a curse. She loves raspberries. She loves this monument you planted in her yard. She will try and control the bushes to some extent. New men will come into her life and never plant a raspberry bush in her yard. Instead, they lament over how she refuses to get rid of the raspberry bush you planted.
He asks, "Why don't you get rid of that fvcking raspberry bush?"
"Because I like raspberries", she responds.
