"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Give her chocolate after sex

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I will share a trick of mine.After my GF swallowed I was always giving her a chocolate to her mouth.First it kills the salty taste,second chocolate stimulates pleasure parts of the brain.

As you give a dog a bone, you should give your chick chocolate to mouth after sex to stimulate more the pleasure experience.Her brain will remeber not only pleasure from you it gets from sex but also pleasure from getting sugar.She will **** and suck better because subconsciously she will knew she will get a reward like a dog gets a bone.

But now scientists at Cambridge University have carried out brain scans that suggest a much more simple explanation. Chocolate is linked to feelings of wellbeing because it simply tastes so good.
They claim munching a bar induces sensations that could be even more pleasurable than listening to your favourite music, winning the lottery, or falling in love.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pure black magic but I shall try that later tonight. Maybe with Black Magic chocolate as an added bit of irony.
 

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Goddam son, that is smart as fuuuuck.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kahlua or any sweet liqueur works well too.
 

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The girl would probably bust my balls about bein way to obvious in manipulating her :D
 

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did this last night. i arranged a tray full of assorted chocolate and after each orgasm (hers) i rewarded her with a piece.

i must say it went down rather well. the tray was empty before the night was out (figuratively and literally).
 

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I'd be concerned about the action of giving her chocolate as a direct acknowledgment that your natural white chocolate is "icky".

Then too it seems overtly manipulative, kind of like throwing a fish at a performing seal. Overt in the sense of overly obvious.

Thoughts?
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm intrigued by this. Give me description of how this would play out in a real-world scenario, please. There's a piece of chocolate in it for you!

Seriously I'd like to know how one would actually implement this.
 

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backbreaker said:
that's funny, i give my wife chocolate during sex;)
Wasn't your screen name "tootsieroll" a few years back? ;)
 

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Atom Smasher said:
I'm intrigued by this. Give me description of how this would play out in a real-world scenario, please. There's a piece of chocolate in it for you!

Seriously I'd like to know how one would actually implement this.

You are overthinking, most women won't ever get the idea you manipulate them because it is their game.They will think you are "nice" "sweet" guy ) You can also eat chocolate too to disarm her suspicions, just make a habit out of it.

When you have sex always have sweet chocolates next to bed, the good quality ones.Right after orgasm or right after she swallows take one to put on her mouth, she will take it by herself as women love sweets, you eat too.The timing is crucial, do it right after to create in her brain Pavlov's reaction

orgasm > chocolate > feel good
swallow > chocolate > feel good

If you do it long enough it will become a habit and create Pavlov's reaction... anytime you want sex or BJ, just show chocolate and she will get turned on automatically without any words or foreplay as chocolate in her brain will be connected with orgasm.

chocolate > orgasm

Pleasure from cocoa and sugar delivered to brain after orgasm will additionally inflate perceived pleasure from sex with you as will boost serotonine level in her brain as will boost sugar (after sex her body will crave for energy)

In case of swallow it will create positive instead of negative reaction on your ***, as taste isn't as great we would wish, so she will enjoy swallowing more as she will know taste will be pleasant.

There is lot of research about women and chocolate :

Why Do Women Crave Chocolate?

Apr 23, 2010
Both men and women crave chocolate, but far more women than men experience chocolate cravings. Why do women crave chocolate more than men? Chocolate cravings may be linked to low blood sugar, stress or changing hormonal levels prior to a woman's menstrual cycle.

Chocolate and Blood Sugar Levels

The sugar and caffeine in chocolate raise your blood sugar levels. Dark chocolate is low on the glycemic index, so it can even help stabilize blood sugar levels safely. One reason why many women and men sometimes crave chocolate is because their blood sugar levels have fallen and chocolate provides a hit of sugar for quick energy. If you find yourself feeling moody, irritable, shaky and fatigued, especially between meals, then your chocolate cravings may be the result of low blood sugar levels.

Chocolate and Serotonin Levels

Eating chocolate makes you feel good, because it increases levels of serotonin in your brain.
Serotonin is the neurotransmitter that is responsible for feelings of well-being and enhanced mood. Many women experience lowered serotonin levels in the 7 to 10 days prior to their menstrual periods, which is one reason why premenstrual women often have powerful cravings for chocolate.

High levels of stress can also make women and men crave chocolate, since increasing serotonin levels can also lead to significant reductions in anxiety. Chocolate is a popular comfort food. It is chosen by emotional eaters, since eating it can raise serotonin levels and help comfort eaters forget about emotional or other problems, low self-esteem or mildly depressed mood.

Chocolate and the Menstrual Cycle

Besides caffeine, fat and sugar, chocolate also contains important trace minerals, like magnesium, which may be deficient in women prior to and during their menstrual cycles. Changing hormonal levels prior to and during the menstrual cycle can inspire all kinds of food cravings, and chocolate is one of them. In fact, many women claim to crave nothing else.

Some researchers claim that chocolate cravings in menstruating women may be a cultural phenomenon. Studies have shown that American women are more likely to crave chocolate than women of other nationalities, perhaps because they're concerned about the high levels of sugar and fat in chocolate and therefore consider it an indulgence. Some experts believe that chocolate cravings in menstruating women may be largely psychological, since they feel that premenstrual symptoms give them a socially acceptable reason to eat chocolate, a high fat food.

Chocolate May Be Addictive

Some research has shown that chocolate contains the same alkaloid compounds that make alcohol addictive, so experts believe there may be some basis to consider chocolate physiologically addictive. It also contains a compound called anandamine, which, scientists believe, stimulates the brain in the same way as marijuana. However, there remains much debate in the medical community as to whether chocolate contains enough of these compounds to be truly addictive or psychoactive.

Chocolate is Just Plain Good

One last reason why women may crave chocolate is because it's good. Chocolate's taste and texture is delicious and unlike that of any other food, which may explain why many women crave it specifically.
 

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Seems reasonable. Chocolate is indeed my own drug of choice.

Next time I'm going to shove a bottle of Hershey's syrup in her mouth and squeeze. Much more convenient plus it will keep her quiet for several seconds.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Atom Smasher said:
Seems reasonable. Chocolate is indeed my own drug of choice.

Next time I'm going to shove a bottle of Hershey's syrup in her mouth and squeeze. Much more convenient plus it will keep her quiet for several seconds.
Come now. You have no problem with covert manipulation (aka Game). What's your problem with overt manipulation?

Maybe because it's all one step away from rape? The ultimate form of base manipulation?
 

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simple classical conditioning, Pavolv's Dog study was where it all started where the kingling of keys was the conditioned stimulus to cause the unconditional stimulus of salivation within the dogs. I never thought about applying this to women lol, good stuff.
 

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backbreaker said:
that's funny, i give my wife chocolate during sex;)
ROFLMFAO!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: I was thinking similarly; of Chef from South Park and his "chocolate salty ballz!
 

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Chocolate covered banana boners in her mouf all night, son!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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