"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I met a woman about a year or so ago who had just come out of a 10 year marriage. She was to me a HB8 was 36 but looked more like mid twenties so she's held up well. My issue with her was that she was still fresh from the divorce and seemed to need validation and was using sex as how to get it. She was sending pics. of her tits and was sexting ect. to not just me but a whole parade of men as well as riding the **** Carousel... She was funny and had allot of good qualities, but no way would I want anything more because of how she was conducting herself. Now a year later, I ran into her and we grabbed a drink of which she said it was a rough year and after several bad attempts at dating someone took some time away from it and had only recently decided to date again. We did have allot of fun and it's something I could see myself doing again, but my issue is... even though she has come back to her senses it seems, is she now low quality because of her choices she made the past year... Do I really want to be out with the girl that has sent pics of herself all over the place. Am I selling her short for bad judgment after a breakup?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Clooney4life said:
but my issue is... even though she has come back to her senses it seems, is she now low quality because of her choices she made the past year...
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YES.

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Do I really want to be out with the girl that has sent pics of herself all over the place?
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NO.

Clooney4life said:
Am I selling her short for bad judgment after a breakup?
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I think you're selling yourself short by considering dating her. Dont even get involved in a "FWB" type situation, you'll just develop feelings and it will get messy.
 
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Everyone has a past but I'd rather not know about it!
I'd be reluctant to get serious with a girl like you've described because I'd feel she was just settling for me after getting her pvssy reamed out by a hundred different men.
The flipside would be that she's tried all those c0cks and decided you're her best option.
Still, I wouldn't do it personally.
 
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Send her packing... You deserve better than the town cvm dumpster.
 
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having her on a serious LTR? nope having her over naked on your bed ****ing? yes, make her a **** buddy nothing else, if you can't do that then not even bother to talk with her
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sex with her is solid... practice makes perfect right.... Kinda sucks since personality wise she and I are work very well, but the thought of being at a nice restaurant and having a grand time when possibly half the guys there have seen her naked.... Kinda takes away from the good feeling of connecting... Been a while for me since I've been out with a girl I like to be around... Plenty of ones that I find hot, but really could care less what there take is on a topic... She is smart... just wasn't smart after the split....
 
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Keep her as a FWB or "open" girlfriend. Nothing more.

Date her, f*ck her and enjoy your time with her. Don't commit, don't marry and don't get "serious".

Men need to remember that f*cking a woman doesn't mean you owe her something. A man is not "taking" from a woman when he f*cks her. She is an active participant in the act.

In some ways modern men need to think and behave more like modern women --> Take what you can, promise nothing, and leave any time for any reason without guilt or apology. :up:
 
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