"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls you've already flirted with seeing you gaming.(hypothetical question)

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright class started again today, man i got lucky, theres at least 2 potential targets in every class, all ranging from 6's-8's. Now I didnt strike anything up as it was the first day of class and I like to wait for 1 day so we can talk about the class/professor,etc. I was wondering though, lets say I game girl A, she has a bf, but there is girl b in the same class. Would you completely stop talking to girl a and start flirting with girl b? to me it seeeeems really dirt bagish, and not the way i play the game. I would still talk just a lil to girl a out of courteousy. Im just trying to find a way where it doesnt seem cheesey like everyone knows you go around the entire class only talking to the hb's. Having more than 1 hottie in a class is nothin to complain about, just seein how yall would do it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rdxshooter

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Spit game at them all, let them hash it out, take the winner

Ever notice that? girls will literraly fight and compete for your attention. My game is this.

Flirt with all of them when they are together, make sure they all see. That will let them know you have options.

Then put yourself in situations where you are alone with each one of them. trust me they will bang you just so they think they have one up on the other girls
 

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First thing you should do is quit the game $hit. Games are for kids. I know your young but to be a dj means you have get past the player aspect. If you are intrested in Girl A and she has a boyfriend than respect that and move on. If girl b is single than get to know her. Who cares if she is a HB8,9,10 if she isn't intresting than again move on.

To go after girls left and right just cause they are hot is weak. Go for quality. I am not saying you can't chat them up and practice on them, but don't treat it like a game or do it for them. You have to go at this for you. Talk to them cause you want to talk to them, but not to be nice.

Or you can just Serge ON!!
 

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i think it's best not to "game" either of them. instead, take the friendly approach, and get to know everyone possible in your classes. in your case, both of these hbs, and anyone else sitting close.

think of it this way, you'll be in class with all these girls for another 5 or 6 months, if neither of them are single, would you feel comfortable with the fact that you got rejected and they know you're interested for the next 5 months? usually, i'm not afraid of showing interst on cold approaches, because chances i'll see her again are slim.

of course, in a class situation, i get to know everyone, treat the girls playfully. if they are attracted to you, it shouldn't be long before she's fawing for your attention. get some kino going early on, especially if you sit next to them.

basically, put yourself in the situation where you can reject them, if it comes around to it, and not the other way around. i know you'll probably think it's stupid and possibly takes time, but if you have a reputation or know a lot of people around campus, word that you tried to mack a girl in class and failed, goes around quick, and you probably don't want that. in the mean time, i bet there's tons of girls on campus you can be approaching too...i think these first few weeks are the best because it is natural to be meeting tons of people, and girls are more open to it, because most people are new.

-gl

edit: what i meant was you can still flirt with them...but don't ask them if they have a bf or if they're single or any stuff like that. maybe see if they want to study together, stuff like that...and let the other details about a bf or etc be told by her.
 

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sweeeeeet. THanks for the advice dudes. I like h20's idea. Thats what I've done in the past and was always the charasmatic guy that people are waiting to talk to before class starts...thing is back then i had no skill in dj'ing so I could never single out a girl when the time is right. I thought i was actually doing things the wrong way, so i shut my mouth and only talked when spoken to or when i needed to, thought i could be the silent hunter.lol. Time to go back to my usual self.Ahhh cant wait till next class.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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