"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls you have kissed - the awkwardness

johnmich

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Have you ever made out / kissed a girl just the once, for example at a party when drunk.

We drink a lot in my country. In USA, you have to be 21, but here (england), you can buy it at 15/16. So we drink a lot and kiss chicks when we drink.

But after this, the time after, when i see the chick and she sees me, there is an awkward silence. And you both know about it.

Any ice breakers or advice ??


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oakraiderz2

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Umm...sexual tension? If you two dont talk then that makes it awkward.
 

DJ4Real

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It depends on the conversation. Think of witty things to say. Witty comments are usually 99% of the time great ice breakers.
 
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