"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls you have kissed - the awkwardness

johnmich

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Have you ever made out / kissed a girl just the once, for example at a party when drunk.

We drink a lot in my country. In USA, you have to be 21, but here (england), you can buy it at 15/16. So we drink a lot and kiss chicks when we drink.

But after this, the time after, when i see the chick and she sees me, there is an awkward silence. And you both know about it.

Any ice breakers or advice ??


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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Umm...sexual tension? If you two dont talk then that makes it awkward.
 

DJ4Real

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It depends on the conversation. Think of witty things to say. Witty comments are usually 99% of the time great ice breakers.
 
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