"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls @ work stay clowning me

Bigg Boss

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And I know damn well I could (or could have) pulled any of these bytches :nono:
. Maybe they're mad that I don't show them interest, and I'm confident.


There IS one girl that I really want to get with though. She only works on the weekends. Last weekend I went to a club with her but we split upon entering. But even though she has shown me interest, I think she lost it after hearing all those other chicks clown me. (and BTW she didn't say anything)


The girls were talking about how lame and how I didn't know anyone at my school (I'm a senior and people still talkin bout popularity :crazy: ). This one girl who just got the job kinda set it off when she said she goes to my school but never seen me before (she's a sophmore). And another girl added on to it by saying her sister has never seen me before (who is either a junior or sophmore). And from there the girls just ate away at my ego. Then 2 other girls were getting on me on a totally different page. They were calling me gay and shyt. Which didn't really hurt me, but I was thinking "shut the f*ck up please" because they say that same shyt everyday.

All attention was focused around me, everyone gettin on me right in front of the girl I'm trying to game. I left work like "damn I really lost" but at the same time "that shyt is not happening to me again".

I haven't been back to work yet. I really need help here. The girls aren't even dimes. One looks like a gremlin, the other looks like the witch of wizard of oz, and another is is so dark she's purple. But I have trouble saying something about their looks because I'mma hurt some feelings becuz I know how girls are. But is that something I need to do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just roll with it man...easier said than done I know, but when girls are giving you sh!t like that just, I find it best to play so damn confident and cool to them that they know their words are just fatwh0re nonsense and cannot affect you. This approach makes you look like more of a man and a more attractive one too. Don't just take their abuse like a pvssy, embrace it and know that it's all sh!t talk because YOU are the man, they are the undesirables who need to trash talk to get their confidence. You get yours from just existing and any words deflect off of you.

Either that or fvcking tear them apart, tell them their faces look weird and they're fat slobs. :D But try to go for the first approach...just dont take any sh!t from them!
 

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Thanks I'mm try and go with the first approach.
 
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