"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Robert28 said:
you have oneitis for her because she isn't yours exclusively. been there, done that. trust me, that's what "one-itis" stems from "wanting what you don't have". i lookback on the girls i had one-itis for over the years and now i laugh at myself about why i was so hungup on them.
Yeah shes my ex..My mistake was getting into a relationship without knowing anything about the 'Game"...I wish i could go back in time with everything i know now and we would still be together and she would probably be in love with me now
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is just me, but I ended up not dating a couple girls cause I found out they had guy friends and no girlfriends. To me it seemed un-natural and was probably for the best.

Everyone has their own opinion, if something doesnt feel right to you, then dont do it.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Symptoms of HPD

People with this disorder are usually able to function at a high level and can be successful socially and at work.

Symptoms include:

Acting or looking overly seductive

Being easily influenced by other people

Being overly concerned with their looks

Being overly dramatic and emotional

Being overly sensitive to criticism or disapproval

Believing that relationships are more intimate than they actually are

Blaming failure or disappointment on others

Constantly seeking reassurance or approval

Having a low tolerance for frustration or delayed gratification

Needing to be the center of attention (self-centeredness)

Quickly changing emotions, which may seem shallow to others
All women are like this.
 

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girls with tons of guy friends usually have no girl friends.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sorry OP, but she is most likely a *****.

I know a girl like this, she was my FB. She says she has guy friends because girls are dramatic.

but... she has mess around with many of them, she is an attention *****, she has childhood issues, she is a slut, and her only female friend is a slut too.

Abort!!
 
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