Girls with past issues

[TommiV]

Hey guys,
Just wondering what you guys think of this. In normal life I really hate to judge people like this. In particular I'm talking about girls who may have had seperated parents or some sort of problems with their parents like they don't get along with one or both.

To be honest I always said that its 2006, and its not right to think a girl who's parents split up a long time ago can't be a perfectly balanced young woman.

On the other hand, since I've tried to get into this game, I always seem to find that girls with these past troubles are hiding a lot of issues inside which tend to come out once you get close to them... Am I just being paranoid after 1 or 2 bad experiences or is there something in it? I feel too judgmental to you should steer clear of these people and thas its not right in this day and age.

 

[Nighthawk]

Half these women are exaggerating their issues to play the poor victim role that works on all the afcs.

The other half deserve your sympathy, not your haven't-walked-in-their-shoes judgment.

 

[penkitten]

everyone has a past, and everyone has issues.

 

[Delta]

good lord,

tell me a girl who DOESN'T have issues! the thing about the divorced parent thing though makes me think you come from a "traditional" or perhaps religious background?

well truth is, it has an effect! it does. but the unpredictable thing is what kind of effect. not everyone will respond the same way to the same event.

having said that though, most strippers/hookers/pornstars/sexworkers were sexually abused. certain things do increase the probability of certain other things.

have said THAT though. you may never get so close that you have to worry about it. maybe don't worry about it until you have to worry about it.

delta

 

[bigneil]

Everyone has some issues, but if they hate their dad it's bad.

If they never knew their dad but had a good stepdad or father figure (granddad, older brother, etc) they have hope.

Ideally they call themselves daddy's little girl.

 

[rrrrr]

What type of issues or mindset does a girl that hates their dad have? I know a girl like this and it's almost like she gets off on any little thing i do bad to her, and she fights me, says she's leaving me, don't talk to me anymore, then asks if i want to get back together, etc, even though we're not dating, almost like she wants me to fight her.