Girls with one-it-is

[Mulder138]

How many times have you talked to a girl and whenever you tried to escalate she talked about fill in the blank and how much she was in love with him? You've seen the guy, he's nothing great looking, but she worships the ground he walks on, kind of like a female AFC. I used to wonder "what did this guy to do have her so interested in him?" After hearing about one guy in this situation, that he didn't even like the girl, was just using her because he liked the high interest, I realized that it has nothing to do with the guy's behavior, it's just luck. He was in the right place, she decided he was "the one" and he lucked out.

Personally, I'd love for a woman to like me that much. She'll do anything to make you happy, including sex. You don't get any drama or games or phone tag and have her where you want her. Anyone experience anything similar?

 

[comic_relief]

Personally, I'd love for a woman to like me that much. She'll do anything to make you happy, including sex. You don't get any drama or games or phone tag and have her where you want her. Anyone experience anything similar?

It's fun and I have had a few girls like that.

That is what my girlfriend is like. She will do anything to make me happy that is within her power.

I have also had girls that have been obsessed with me because of my personality. It is really interesting and most of the time that this happens is when I am in a relationship already.

Most of the time these girls are 7's and 8's.

comic_relief

 

[Mulder138]

From my own experiences and from reading what people have to say on here, guys like a challenge. We go after the girls that have minimal or no interest. So when a girl that likes us and doesn't play the typical games comes along, we're thinking "this is too easy" and it's like we don't want to believe a woman could be so forward.

A while ago, I was trying to game this girl on myspace, who had a boyfriend and had pictures of her and her boyfriend. I looked at him and thought "he's no better looking than me" and tried to game her. After a week or two of getting nowhere with her, someone told me something I'll never forget: "Stress and anxiety are bad. If you're not having fun, why bother?"

There really is no point talking to a girl that's playing games. Even if you manage to have sex or go out with her, it's on her terms. She controls the interaction.

Why not find a girl that likes you from the beginning? Sure, there's nothing to chase, but I'd rather have sex with a girl that wants to have sex with me than a difficult, snobby girl.

 

[Bvbidd]

Don't tell people to want wh0res. Wh0res are usless, unless for sex but I really have trouble getting it up around em.

Girls should be resistant, if they want you from the begining no questions asked, no games, no tests, there is something wrong there.

You should expect the games, that's half of the fun.

 

[Mulder138]

If your idea of fun is getting a girl's number and then calling her only to have her never answer or tell you she's busy, good for you. Or if you get her past that level, she uses the idea of sex to her advantage but never wants to have it, yeah that's half the fun.

Sure, you don't want a girl that is so obsessed with you she agrees with everything you say, but I'd rather deal with a nice mature woman than a girl that acts like she's still in high school.

 

[PhatE1vis]

"Stress and anxiety are bad. If you're not having fun, why bother?"

Mulder, I think you just rocked my world with this statement. Simple and eloquent. I'm so stressed and anxious over a chick right now that I can't concentrate. This may do the trick for me.

 

[eko]

from my experience that obsession and oneitis is a complete turn off. At least a bit of a chase is fun. It takes time to get to really know and love someone. It's ok if there is a lot of interest, but the oneitis obsession is not healthy and bad for relationships. I don't see any people with long term relationships have oneitis. It seems so immature and high school if one can't control their emotions to the point of obsession. Sucks to break a girls heart, too. Especially ones that have oneitis.

Then again, don't waste time with girls with low interest. A girl can have high interest but not have that crippling oneitis. If she can do that, I see it as a sign of a mature, independant and respectable girl. I don't like when girls basically ask me to walk all over them and their emotions.

Being responsible for one's emotions is not a fun situation to be in.

 

[Mulder138]

"A girl can have high interest but not have that crippling oneitis. If she can do that, I see it as a sign of a mature, independant and respectable girl. I don't like when girls basically ask me to walk all over them and their emotions.

Being responsible for one's emotions is not a fun situation to be in."

Good point. I'm just used to dealing with and hearing about girls that flake or play games. True, you don't want someone that says "I love you so much I can't live without you" and she doesn't even know you, but if a girl is brutally honest, like "I think you're cute/hot/pick other good adjective" and makes her intentions known without being needy about it, it's all I ask for. I used to be the guy that fell for girls that had limited or no interest in me, and thought I could somehow throw a magic wand over them with my words and make them like me or have more interest, but you're just wasting time. 9 times out of 10, she isn't going to change her mind.

 

[sandman6991]

A while ago, I was trying to game this girl on myspace, who had a boyfriend and had pictures of her and her boyfriend. I looked at him and thought "he's no better looking than me" and tried to game her. After a week or two of getting nowhere with her, someone told me something I'll never forget: "Stress and anxiety are bad. If you're not having fun, why bother?"

There really is no point talking to a girl that's playing games. Even if you manage to have sex or go out with her, it's on her terms. She controls the interaction.

Why not find a girl that likes you from the beginning? Sure, there's nothing to chase, but I'd rather have sex with a girl that wants to have sex with me than a difficult, snobby girl.

I needed to hear this...thank you, in more ways than I can say.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

How many times have you talked to a girl and whenever you tried to escalate she talked about fill in the blank and how much she was in love with him? You've seen the guy, he's nothing great looking, but she worships the ground he walks on, kind of like a female AFC. I used to wonder "what did this guy to do have her so interested in him?" After hearing about one guy in this situation, that he didn't even like the girl, was just using her because he liked the high interest, I realized that it has nothing to do with the guy's behavior, it's just luck. He was in the right place, she decided he was "the one" and he lucked out.

Personally, I'd love for a woman to like me that much. She'll do anything to make you happy, including sex. You don't get any drama or games or phone tag and have her where you want her. Anyone experience anything similar?

no no no


What you need to do is pay attn to the minor stuff that the guy she loved did, and do them on the sly, in a manner she wont perceive as copying but gets the idea across. Its not just about looks, that is why the dude can be average looking or not as good looking as you.

 

[Bvbidd]

It's not luck, the guy either doesn't like her and she wants what she can't get or he knew what he was doing the whole time.

One of those two. That's it.

All girls have one-it-is never met one that didn't. And they guy has always made it obvious to NOT like her. Whether he did or not, doesn't matter.