Girls with minimal hobbies/interests and don’t workout

[BJP1991]

What’s your opinion on these kinds of girls?

Ones who when you ask what they’re in to, they either don’t have a legitimate answer or say they “don’t do much”. Similarly, girls who also don’t workout or do any physical activity.

For example, had a date recently with a girl who was probably 7/10. Thin body, nice smile. But didn’t really have any actual hobbies and scoffed at the concept of “working out”. Personally, this is a pretty big turnoff for me, as I am a very active person and I am also very passionate about my hobbies and interests, where I could talk for hours and hours about the activities I enjoy, while this girl literally said she enjoys “relaxing, watching tv, and taking naps” - literally everyone does that, it’s not personal to you.


For me, it’s hard to get beyond this, as it shows lack of passion (for a hobby) or drive to be in shape. Sure, you can be lean and never workout, but I automatically assume you’re “skinny fat” and half the time, the girl has zero booty when they’re like that (I like booty).


Thoughts? Do you next them a lot of the time like I do, especially if zero chemistry?

 

[Hal9000]

Women who don't work out aren't necessarily a deal breaker but women who have absolutely nothing going on in their lives are a waste of time. What the hell are you supposed to talk about, or do, with them? May as well get a cat.

 

[BJP1991]

Women who don't work out aren't necessarily a deal breaker but women who have absolutely nothing going on in their lives are a waste of time. What the hell are you supposed to talk about, or do, with them? May as well get a cat.

Yeah I agree that no working out isn’t a dealbreaker, but when combined with no legitimate interests or hobbies that they would otherwise pursue, it loses me.


However my issue is that if the girl is hot, like 8-9 instead of 7, I feel like I can’t let it go, even though I know it’s not a girl I genuinely want - she’s just good looking.

 

[ubercat]

By all means try the goods but don't keep around for too long these kind of chicks suck the life out of you. admittedly I am old but I had this hot blonde once how had make out session on the first date the second date she went on for like an hour about her spin classes. I never ended up boning her I couldn't sustain interest for long enough.

 

[BJP1991]

By all means try the goods but don't keep around for too long these kind of chicks suck the life out of you. admittedly I am old but I had this hot blonde once how had make out session on the first date the second date she went on for like an hour about her spin classes. I never ended up boning her I couldn't sustain interest for long enough.

See to me that’s something a girl is passionate about, at least. If they can go on and on about something (literally anything) that means they have an interest or passion about SOMETHING at least...I would like that because it shows they’re not a boring chick.

Coincidentally, whenever I’ve encountered this with women they are usually (1) blonde and (2) they seem like they’re more status driven type of people. Ironically, they don’t bring enough value to the table.

 

[ubercat]

Believe me she had boring covered. I normally shag them just out of professional pride. And after 30+ years in the saddle I m pretty good at that part. Why deny them a life experience. And you never know just occasionally they show some humanity after that. But this one really was just a worker drone waiting for some guy dumb enough to knock her up

 

[AttackFormation]

Ime how enjoyable a girl is to be with has little to nothing to do with what activities she does or doesn't do. She can be real fun or real boring with just her own personality, as can you, depending on who you both are by yourselves. The most enjoyable interactions I've had with women, neither of us has needed to go on to the other about any activities. If you don't have good chemistry, you still wouldn't have it even if she so did whatever you could imagine, and vice versa.

It honestly sounds quite platonic to me as well, to begin a relation like that rather than with teasing and sexual playfulness.

 

[Epic Days]

Are you thinking she’s there to talk about your passions and hobbies? Her career or work?

After you are intimate with her, ask her about her life and past relationships if you want. Find out things you need to know. That’s if you are looking for a girlfriend. If you’re not looking for a girlfriend but want to spin her, what the hell are you doing?

ALL women are spinners until otherwise vetted.

 

[Epic Days]

In this western world, life is gravy train. Generally women’s “hobbies” revolve around the social paradigm.
Women rarely or even ever gather in the mountains alone or in areas where there are no men. A woman’s world is competition with other women and the infusion of men. That is what they do. They don’t have to do much to even clean up their spaces at home.

What a man should be looking at is her skills. Hobbies? Oh please. Like what hobbies are men referring too? Doll houses and miniatures?

Now skills is what you want to look for. Why a good cook? Because it represents her caring for others. Wanting to please and insure that others are cared for.
Why being able to do things? This is representative of her stepping outside her incessant and sometimes overwhelming narcissistic nature.
Can she fix a pair of torn jeans? Can she care for sick people? Will she go out of her way to help you fix something? Does she roll up her sleeves and help you when you need it?
Is she willing to learn a new skill set that betters both of your lives? Or does she stand back and watch you make the world go right and reap the benefits?

Looking at hobbies and purposes is actually a woman looking at men. She is the opposite of masculine. Or rather she needs to be. She feels like a contributor to the world and you when she steps the fuk up to be feminine.

 

[sosousage]

What’s your opinion on these kinds of girls?

Ones who when you ask what they’re in to, they either don’t have a legitimate answer or say they “don’t do much”. Similarly, girls who also don’t workout or do any physical activity.

For example, had a date recently with a girl who was probably 7/10. Thin body, nice smile. But didn’t really have any actual hobbies and scoffed at the concept of “working out”. Personally, this is a pretty big turnoff for me, as I am a very active person and I am also very passionate about my hobbies and interests, where I could talk for hours and hours about the activities I enjoy, while this girl literally said she enjoys “relaxing, watching tv, and taking naps” - literally everyone does that, it’s not personal to you.


For me, it’s hard to get beyond this, as it shows lack of passion (for a hobby) or drive to be in shape. Sure, you can be lean and never workout, but I automatically assume you’re “skinny fat” and half the time, the girl has zero booty when they’re like that (I like booty).


Thoughts? Do you next them a lot of the time like I do, especially if zero chemistry?

COPE. these girls who 'relax, watch tv, take naps) live better life than u cuz of infinite internet dating pool etc etc

 

[zekko]

I wouldn't mind if a girl had no hobbies so much, as long as she had a nice personality and was pleasant to be around.
The biggest problem I see is if she gets bored easily and would expect me to entertain her all the time, I couldn't deal with that.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Thats basically the current average woman in western countries.

Take away her cellphone (social media mostly) and she really has nothing to do cause even the celebrity gossip she gets is online.

A girl working out is usually a woman approaching the wall and trying anything possible, as long as they have enough validation they will stay away from anything that requires work and discipline like diets and working out.

Even the girls hitting the gym usually do it casually and do nothing beside slowly walking on the threadmill.

But the top of lazyness are english mothertongue girls which dont even speak a second language outside a couple of words in spanish.

 

[ubercat]

Depends on their location I guess in Europe or Asia I would agree that is incredibly lazy. in that case given that woman actually have larger language centres in their brains that is very poor form.

 

[Smok1nAce]

hobbies..?...shiiiit. Can she cook, clean, is she good in bed, does she like to please, is she loyal, is she in shape. Would she make a good mother? Is she good company to be around? Does she want kids? Do you want kids with her?

Women like this can be either bad or good. She could either make an incredible mother that puts her family before herself or she could be a bad energy, dwelling on gossip and superficial things type of women. Its up to you to find these things out.

Unless a women is fat I don't think its necessary for her to "workout", if anything that just ages her before her time. Men are really the only ones that should be "working out" because of all the testosterone we have. Its not in women like it is in men.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

hobbies..?...shiiiit. Can she cook, clean, is she good in bed, does she like to please, is she loyal, is she in shape. Would she make a good mother? Is she good company to be around? Does she want kids? Do you want kids with her?

Women like this can be either bad or good. She could either make an incredible mother that puts her family before herself or she could be a bad energy, dwelling on gossip and superficial things type of women. Its up to you to find these things out.

Unless a women is fat I don't think its necessary for her to "workout", if anything that just ages her before her time. Men are really the only ones that should be "working out" because of all the testosterone we have. Its not in women like it is in men.

Working out doesnt work like that. It causes regeneration and cell growth. It keeps you younger and fitter longer

 

[MatureDJ]

Oh, these women have a hobby; it's called ...

SHOPPING!