Girls with many guy friends - how to deal with them

[stallion]

So I finally met a girl who seems to have a lot of guy friends.

I can try and neg hit her but otherwise, I'm not really sure how I should act around her. These guy friends probably try very hard to keep her laughing so I'm not really sure what to do here except practice challenge and ask her out to dates.

Btw, she mentioned she's not into movies because she prefers playing sports like tennis, volleyball, etc. I might just ask her out to a quick coffee at a cafe but what do you guys think?

 

[txuclafan]

Definately hit the sports avenue. Play tennis it's- one on one. Raquetball or squash for even closer proximity. Active "get togethers" will take some of the "pressure" off and allow for a more natural flow. Bottom line be a challenge but you need to add value, avoid the pitfalls of the friendzone, effortless kino and ask open ended questions to elicit her values and tells.

 

[intomyown]

Most of these guys probably fell into the friends zone after being too afc. Picture them as examples of guys who blew it but still hang around. Try to avoid situations where you hang out with all of them, you will probably get c*ck-blocked. Set up the date over the phone.

Sounds like you suggested a movie for a first date. Ask her to a movie only after you've tapped her.

I would try raquetball instead of tennis because there is no net dividing you and she will be within arms reach for Kino.

 

[AKA FLEX]

Originally posted by intomyown
Most of these guys probably fell into the friends zone after being too afc. Picture them as examples of guys who blew it but still hang around. Try to avoid situations where you hang out with all of them, you will probably get c*ck-blocked. Set up the date over the phone.

Sounds like you suggested a movie for a first date. Ask her to a movie only after you've tapped her.

I would try raquetball instead of tennis because there is no net dividing you and she will be within arms reach for Kino.

Or you could do the smart thing and avoid women who have lots of guy friends at all costs. Trust me dude, they're all nuts. I know from experience. I posted about this type of woman in more detail a few weeks ago, if you search the archives you might be able to find it.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Neg-hit, kino, eye contact... will always equal success.


Don't worry about her guy friends. 99% of the population is a bunch of AFC losers, so they are no threat to you.

 

[CRooK]

Originally posted by AKA FLEX
Or you could do the smart thing and avoid women who have lots of guy friends at all costs. Trust me dude, they're all nuts. I know from experience. I posted about this type of woman in more detail a few weeks ago, if you search the archives you might be able to find it.

I totally agree. My ex was the same way. She had lots of male friends, got all their phone numbers in her personal notebook. I just couldn't trust the b1tch the whole time i was with her for eight months. She was a total *****. She use guys and mooches off from different guys who can help/provide her needs and after she's done with you, the b1tch will cheat or dump you. I've learn this hard way. Stay the fuk away from these b1thes.

 

[trajhenkhet]

understand that trust takes time. Try and guage your women's values if you can. Otherwise keep some emotional space away from her. This is just a guess on my part but, if one were to play ones cards right the other dudes should dissapear in short order.

 

[Digital Mastermind1]

Originally posted by AKA FLEX
Or you could do the smart thing and avoid women who have lots of guy friends at all costs. Trust me dude, they're all nuts. I know from experience. I posted about this type of woman in more detail a few weeks ago, if you search the archives you might be able to find it. [/QUOTE


AKA FLEX im the one that started a thread like this about my ex gf with alot of guy friends .

STALLION find someone else that doesnt have alot of guy friends trust me i spend hell with these kind of women they are more into their friends than you and you will always be second to her friends. id rather be with a girl that is into me .



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[jnallen]

STALLION find someone else that doesnt have alot of guy friends trust me i spend hell with these kind of women they are more into their friends than you and you will always be second to her friends. id rather be with a girl that is into me .



Exactly. I dated one and she was the same way. No to mention a lot of these so called guy friends turn out to be f-buddies in the long run. Take it from someone who learned the hard way.

 

[stallion]

wow, so its true that a lot of people got burned from dating this type of girl.

its all right, I've been practicing my skills in approaching girls in the gym and my pace has been 1 number close and success per visit to the gym which is a pretty good place to start.

what is interesting about this girl is that she has a lot of girl friends at the same time. I was running at the tracks with her and two girls came up and the girl immediately introduced them to me. Afterwards, she introduced me to one of her guy friend.

I'll probably just ask her out for practice and meanwhile go for more numbers.

 

[jnallen]

Beware of any girl who says she is going out this weekend with a friend. Most will say I am going out with Sheila if they are going out with a girl friend. I have found when they say I am going out with a friend it is a guy friend.

 

[The Time Machine]

Beware of any girl who says she is going out this weekend with a friend. Most will say I am going out with Sheila if they are going out with a girl friend. I have found when they say I am going out with a friend it is a guy friend.

Pressing The blue button....
Bump!

 

[green69]

Yea I have similar experiences with the girl with lots of guy friends. It's trouble. The main problem I had is that since all of these guys had a secret crush on her, they would always put her on the top of their "social ladder" in terms of invites and get togethers. She'd always have lots of guys chasing after her, and although they were 100% in the friend zone, she never had to work for anything since the guys treat her like a god. Pretty aggravating I must say.