girls with lots of guy-freinds and vice versa-what ya think

[joe45]

any of u guys met or date girls who had or has a lotttt of freinds who are guys or let's say majority of em are guys. also these guys are good looking too-trendy clohtes, good jobs, educated.... etc. what do u think of this-and she tells u shes single too.
also for guys having lot of friends who are girls -what do u as the girl who is dating the guy think of this-ok , what not. lets say they are really close too like good close freinds-always hang out and this and that-joke around.
what are these ppl called and why are they liked that-i usually find guys sticking with guys and girls and girls- guys who have lotf of friends who are girls can be called gay, and girls with lots of guy friends are called attention *****s or tom boys.
i for one find it hard to make freinds who are girls-either dating em or jsut forget about it-i mean how can guy and girl just be freinds-just too much problems and hormones. i mean what do u talk to em about-yea cars, girls, boobs, yea lol nothing. and most girls i now like to hang with girls too and guys with guys.

 

[Tear Gas]

i become friends with girls i dont find attractive as social proof. i walk into a bar/club with some decent girls and it makes me look good...other girls will feel comfortable around you since girls like hanging out with you (makes you look safe).


also. i stay "friends" (not true friends) with many girls in order to meet THEIR friends. a girls social network is much more broader than most guys.

 

[KontrollerX]

I think that girls with a lot of guy friends and barely a female friend in sight are bad news and most often have a personality disorder.

Usually girls like this have the Histrionic Personality Disorder.

http://www.toad.net/~arcturus/dd/histrion.htm

I call these women by their clinical name which would be HPD's. This forum refers to them as AW's which I'm sure you can figure out what that means.

For every man's own safety it is best he stay far far away from this kind of woman. Don't try to make her into a **** buddy, don't try to become her friend, don't associate with her at all.

These women only want to use you.

What they want to do more than anything is get you to fall in love with them and not just a normal falling in love they want you obsessed with them via love obsession so they can identify with that love as the love they never received as a child.

Once they get this from you they will go from idealizing you to devaluing you to finally discarding you.

Then you will chase her wondering what in the hell happened and possibly get yourself in legal trouble over it.

Well it was nothing you did you were just victim number 5billion of this awful mental illness that can afflict men or women but mostly women are the ones to get it.

They cheat on every guy they are with no matter how awesome he is, they are pathological liars, they are the best manipulator you will ever meet, they have no friends or boyfriends people are mere objects to them, the guy friends aren't friends but guys she wants to **** at some point or just guys she wants to use to feel good by getting them to hang out with her. The attention she gets from people is known as narcissistic supply. No HPD wants to connect or have genuine intimacy they just want to use you up for all your worth and then discard you like rubbish when they've exhausted their purposes with you whatever that purpose may be.

I know all of this because I was used by such a woman. Do not become me.

 

[MightyMate]

Most of my woman had many guy-friends. Of course i aint letting em meet so it all crashed. **** AFCs who are friends coz cant get a woman.

 

[shortstop22]

Kontroller

It's true. I too had a relationship with a girl with a personality disorder. Her parents never cared for her, both her father and sister both tried to kill themselves, mother is an alcoholic and brother is a juvenile delinquent. The result? Seeking constant approval and love from men.

When we were dating she told me about all of these guys that wanted her so badly, and were obsessed with her. What did I do? Tried to make her feel more special. As a result she felt that she had me and then started to devalue me. I dumped her when I realized what was going on, which probably explains why she still contacts me via internet.

Some girls are just attention *****s, others have this severe illness, which is really quite sad.

 

[cave dweller]

HPD

KontrollerX,

I dated a woman with HPD.......(an attention wh0re)

Wow, never again........

cave dweller