"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls with close guy friends

Ricky

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I'm sure this has been discussed alot, but what is your take on girls that have a couple of close guy friends?

To me it isn't too much of an issue, but I was wondering what you think of a girl have primarily other guys as her friends.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tristan22

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1. Attention *****!

2. A type of girl i run far far away from!

:D
 

TheNonPedant

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my buddy's girl has a lot of guy friends...nothin wrong with her.

In fact one of my female friends has a lot of guy friends and has a steady boyfriend.

Date her and go with what your instincts are tellin you.
 

Barbillus

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Depends what kind nof guy friends they are.

Are they AFC-like guys or alpha male like guys? If the latter I would be on the look out.

But overall with girls like this, just in general be cautious as they are generally the "queen bee" type girls that love the attention.
 

NRM

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My take is that girls with guy friends are just straight up looking for a powertrip to feed on. Really... why would they want close GUY friends? Can't it be enough that they can talk with their girlfriends ALL DAY LONG?

Look at it this way, if a guy likes a girl and the girl turns him down but says they can still be friends, what does that mean? He's good enough to be friends with, but not good enough to date?

Attention whore.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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