Okay...there's these two girls (who aren't really related in anyway...) at school and sometimes I feel them or see them staring at me. They both have boyfriends and are pretty happy with their relationships (I see them cuddling/smiling/talking with their boyfriends sometimes) so I don't know if I'm overanalyzing or if I'm just good-looking or what. I'm a pretty quiet guy though I dress pretty well and I'm usually pretty open with my friends (who are friends with these girls, too...). I know they're taken but are these girls "interested" in me? Are they checking me out? It COULD be that they look at me sometimes just to see if I'M looking, but I don't think so....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Girls with boyfriends who stare...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
just cause they got boyfriends doesnt mean they are married or their likes for other guys disappear. If you ever see them alone just so hi. after that if they are interested they might approach you. just so hi or do like me and my friends do it and go
"holla at a playa!!!!"
it works sometimes lol, it mostly works outside, but sometimes girls turn around, smile and wave.
"holla at a playa!!!!"
it works sometimes lol, it mostly works outside, but sometimes girls turn around, smile and wave.
/\ Haha yeah, you're right...it's just that I wasn't sure because these girls seem like the "nice girls" who wouldn't cheat on their boyfriends. I guess checking me out doesn't count as cheating. I'll make a note to "hit em up when they break up..."
Okay, I'm going to try to explain this as easy as possible.
Just because a girl "stares" at you, doesn't mean that she's going to hop on top of you when her boyfriend's not looking and make sweet love to you then and there. By no means am I saying that. Pursuing girls that are already taken is a complete and total No-No. I mean come on guys, don't you have any morals anymore? Would you want guys lurking on your gf like a bunch of hungry hobos on a McDonalds bag? Good lord, sometimes I think I'm going crazy whenever I hear stuff like this. There are PLENTY and I mean "PLENTY" of other, free and available girls that you could talk to.
Look at it like this guys. If you thought a girl was interested in you. Say her name's Cassie. She has a bf. Say his name's Brian. She looks at you one day. You go up to her when her bf's out doing something, ask her out, and she says yes. Ends up falling for you, and dumping her bf. Where does that leave you? Yea, you have a girl, but what's going to keep her from having some other shmuck do the same thing to you? See, it all comes around to bite you in the ass. So, no matter how good the bait looks, don't take it. Guys, if there's one area we DJs seemingly always fall short on, it's not looking at the consequences of things. Sometimes the thing that looks "good" to you may not be worth the risk. Think about it.
But, to answer your question, no they're probably not interested. Just because someone glances at you momentarily doesn't mean they want to be with you forever. Stop overanalyzing and getting your hopes up. You probably glance at girls everyday, but does that mean that you want to be with them? NO, probably not. They're just eye candy.
Lesson of the day: You'll get yourself in trouble if you mess with other guy's girlfriends. IT'S NOT WORTH IT
Just because a girl "stares" at you, doesn't mean that she's going to hop on top of you when her boyfriend's not looking and make sweet love to you then and there. By no means am I saying that. Pursuing girls that are already taken is a complete and total No-No. I mean come on guys, don't you have any morals anymore? Would you want guys lurking on your gf like a bunch of hungry hobos on a McDonalds bag? Good lord, sometimes I think I'm going crazy whenever I hear stuff like this. There are PLENTY and I mean "PLENTY" of other, free and available girls that you could talk to.
Look at it like this guys. If you thought a girl was interested in you. Say her name's Cassie. She has a bf. Say his name's Brian. She looks at you one day. You go up to her when her bf's out doing something, ask her out, and she says yes. Ends up falling for you, and dumping her bf. Where does that leave you? Yea, you have a girl, but what's going to keep her from having some other shmuck do the same thing to you? See, it all comes around to bite you in the ass. So, no matter how good the bait looks, don't take it. Guys, if there's one area we DJs seemingly always fall short on, it's not looking at the consequences of things. Sometimes the thing that looks "good" to you may not be worth the risk. Think about it.
But, to answer your question, no they're probably not interested. Just because someone glances at you momentarily doesn't mean they want to be with you forever. Stop overanalyzing and getting your hopes up. You probably glance at girls everyday, but does that mean that you want to be with them? NO, probably not. They're just eye candy.
Lesson of the day: You'll get yourself in trouble if you mess with other guy's girlfriends. IT'S NOT WORTH IT