She had moderate IL at the start.
She decided to audition you but after the date she decided she didn't want to pursue anything further with you (don't take it personally).
She does not have a BF. She is "seeing someone" doesn't mean much - read Gio's definition on that.
But let me say one thing in this chick's favour!
Rather than string you along on a bunch of dates until she finds someone else she likes more, she was up front about not wanting another date. Plus, she didn't try to keep you on the backburner in case she needed someone to fill her spare time at some point.
She let it be clearly known that you shouldn't pursue her further, saving you time. No need to worry about her IL, keep calling (in your case emailing), wait for return calls, get flaked dates, stood up even...
There are Attention wh0res and Professional Daters out there who will waste your time letting you take them out time after time then eventually throw a BF or we're just friends line in (if you let them). This chick didn't do that.
She decided to audition you but after the date she decided she didn't want to pursue anything further with you (don't take it personally).
She does not have a BF. She is "seeing someone" doesn't mean much - read Gio's definition on that.
But let me say one thing in this chick's favour!
Rather than string you along on a bunch of dates until she finds someone else she likes more, she was up front about not wanting another date. Plus, she didn't try to keep you on the backburner in case she needed someone to fill her spare time at some point.She let it be clearly known that you shouldn't pursue her further, saving you time. No need to worry about her IL, keep calling (in your case emailing), wait for return calls, get flaked dates, stood up even...
There are Attention wh0res and Professional Daters out there who will waste your time letting you take them out time after time then eventually throw a BF or we're just friends line in (if you let them). This chick didn't do that.