"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls with BFs?

trans_am17

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At my work there a re 2 hbs that have boyfriends but I still get the feeling are into me. We joke around together and stuff. But how should I act since they already have BFs? Should I just stay away from them since theyre already taken? One of the girls's bf always shows up at our work like hes keeping an eye on his girl and I think he even sees me as a threat.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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white cloud 8

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whats up with that???.......you can talk to whoever you want.
 

ThaDJ

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ya flirt with both of them... who cares about the bfs its not like they own the girls.
 

Jerky Boi

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Good lord, how many times have we all seen this? STAY AWAY FROM GIRLS WITH BOYFRIENDS. You're just asking for trouble. I mean, good lord, think about how many other girls there are available. The girls you're talking to are probably just trying to make their bfs jealous or are just flat out *****s. You decide. But, all in all, I think a little casual flirting never hurt anyone. Just don't make it your goal in life to steal guy's gf's. I mean come on, would you want someone to do that to you? ;)
 

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theres nothing wrong with talking. Dont make a move on them, though. Let them do that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dr james80

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I can't say that Im one hell of a DJ, but let me give you some advice. Keep being friendly with the girls...make them laugh and be happy. Dont be an emotional tampoon or a stooge though. A highschool boyfriend isn't a husband my dear DJ. He's an obstacle =). but I dont suggest you to start asking these girls on dates or hitting on them. Keep being friendly and who knows...one of these days...one of this chicks may eventually fall for you. That bf who's constantly watching her is insecured of you, and I dont think they're relationship will last since he's immatured and has no CHALLENGE AND SELF-CONTROL. You are still young. Meet a lot of girls out there. Don't worry about rejection. It's a part of life. I suggest you start reading doc love's articles at askmen.com Good luck
 
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