Girls with bf's in highschool....

[MisterMcGee]

Naw as long as you didnt avoid her. if you just didnt notice her, then no biggie. I do this to the work girl I've mentioned before. I'll walk by her like I don't notice her. If she thinks something is up, that's her fault cause people walk by each other all the time without looking at them or saying something. You two aren't dating or anything, so no reason for special treatment.
Personally, I stay away from situations that don't work in my favour.
The workplace is one of these locations that make being 'buds' very easy, as the atmosphere for sexual chemistry and such isn't there. So I stay away from casual conversation and encounters as much as possible in such places if I am interested in the girl.
If you find yourself in these situations, use them to your advantage and play some simple 'I don't notice you' hard-to-get stuff. It takes no effort and adds some "you aren't clingy" notches onto your rep belt.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Haha, wow, that actually does come out in my favor. Thanks bro.

 

[Igetit!]

So I stay away from casual conversation and encounters as much as possible in such places if I am interested in the girl.

PERFECTION. This piece of advice from MisterMcGee is right on the dot correct. You see what he said here,Jokerisk? He said that if if he likes the girl,he stays away from causal conversations with her. I like this MisterMcGee. I did this with one of my ex-girlfriends before. She used to work at a fast food place I used to frequent often. I would go there like 2 or 3 times a week for lunch with some of my friends from work. I noticed her there,and I was attracted to her,but the timing was off. Like whenever I was at the counter ordering food,then would be someone in line behind me,so I couldn't "game her",or ask her out. So whenever I'd see her,I'd completely ignore her. And I mean totally.
I'd intentionally go to someone else to order my food,or if I had to speak to her,I kept it short and only relevent to the business of ordering my food.

Then one day,when I was up there,I was in line by myself with her at the counter. So I ordered my food,then after taking my order,she said,"Will that be all?". Then I said,"Well,I guess you can go ahead and give me your name and phone number too.". She had sort of an excited/surprised look on her face,then she said,"ARE YOU SERIOUS?". I told her yes,then the rest is history.

The point is this:If I had struck up a conversation with her about whatever and talked to her each and everytime I went up there,then after chatting with her for like two months I finally had asked her out,things would have been uncomfortable.....for both of us. By ignoring her and avoiding her,I couldn't fall into the friendzone,because I was never around her. And when I did talk to her,I kept it short and to the point. Then once the business was cleared up,I didn't hang around talking. I left. This way she doesn't know me,so how can she put me in the friendzone if she doesn't even know who I am?

Jokerisk,the girls you have the best chances with are the one you don't know,and who don't know you.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Yeah, i understand where you guys are coming from.
She talked to me a little this morning, but some of my friends **** blocked me, and acted like idiots, so whtever. Lol. I swear guys, I can't believe how guys act just to impress a girl.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Okay, update. I didn't acknowledge this girl until today, but that's only because she started talking to me. idk if i've mentioned this to anyone on here, but I broke my collar bone about a month ago. So anyways. In the morning, before class, I start chatting with one of my buddies, whose good friends with this girl. So after about 5 min. she comes up and starts talking to him, and gives him a hug because class is about to start up. So she sees me and says, "Hey, I saw you in the store a couple days ago." and I say, "Sorry I didn't notice you" . She then goes on to mess with me about the embarrassing story that everyone knows about, which involves how my collar bone broke, and she nudges me. Then i grab her by her bag and nudge her back.
I kinda *****ed out. Shoulda went in for the hug....

 

[Igetit!]

I like that you told her that you didn't notice in the store. Good one.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Thank you, for the positive feedback, Igetit!