"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls with all gay friends

Celadus

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Anyone ever dealt with a girl who had a lot of gay friends? I did a little recon on a girl my aunt is trying to hook me up and all her myspace top friends are gay dudes. Seems odd. She's artistic and a little weird but I like that.

What goes on in a woman's head to make her like this? Any ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gay guys tend to be hotter than straight guys.. anyway you better let her know you're straight lol

ohh also, they can treat the guys like girlfriends.
 

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I generally avoid them like the plague. They usually hate me for it too, but go **** yourself, I say.
 

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She may be pleasuring these gay friends, watch out for that, it's common.
 

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Celadus said:
Anyone ever dealt with a girl who had a lot of gay friends? I did a little recon on a girl my aunt is trying to hook me up and all her myspace top friends are gay dudes. Seems odd. She's artistic and a little weird but I like that.

What goes on in a woman's head to make her like this? Any ideas?
1) They're "safe" because these women know that the gay guys won't always be trying to get into their pants like some straight guys do.

2) You like "guy stuff" right? So you're going to hang out with people who like the same things you do.

Soooooo likewise with women... The more effeminate of gay guys love shopping, talking about "cute men," clothing, they tend to focus on their looks, they love drama... sound like a sterotype of a certain gender, anyone?

3) I think that lately, it's become more "hip" for women to have a "token gay" friend. You're practically a bigot if you don't have one. But if you do, you're hip and progressive and free thinking, and "wouldn't you want to be all those things in this society?!"

What gets me is the lengths some girls will go to have a token gay friend just so that they can be hip. The guy could be a complete idiot, and they'd seek them out just because he's gay.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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