"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girls with 1 word answeres are pissing me off!

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Desperateforhelp

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If these girls are only using 1 words responses they are probably not worth it. A girl who is making no effort to talk to you is just to lazy or dull headed is not worth the conversation. If you attempted to make a conversation with her and she just acted like you didn't talk to her at all and pays no interest to you. Then it definately isn't worth it go find a girl that actually likes to talk to you.

-It's all in the words!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I disagree that EVERY girl who gives you one word answers is NOT interested. Sure many will be but some girls are just very shy and non conversationalists. I have had situations with girls who did the one word answer thing and as it happened the girl was intimidated by me but really liked me.

cmon guys it's happened to you ? you've been around a girl you adore and you goto pieces and can't get a word out !

simple solution

ask the girl this question

do you like me ?

you'll get a yes or no answer and find out one way or another
 
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In my experience, these girls are usually the shy type... They usually open up a bit after a while (at least in my experience).

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So, I know she's partly interested in me...
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Interest is like the tide of the ocean. It comes and it goes. Unfortunately, this girl is at LOW TIDE.

Since you're a Master Don Juan, you should know that she's lost interest. Time to move on. If she's ever interested in you again, her actions will let you know.
 
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You people aren't understanding. I"m not trying to lay her. I'm her friend. I just want her to talk. She likes me... i don't like her.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Desperateforhelp:
Then it definately isn't worth it go find a girl that actually likes to talk to you.
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This is kind of my approach as well. If they are "one-wording" you they really probably dont want to speak to you. A girl who is interested lights up and joins in the convo - smiles etc. Soem will want to talk to you - some won't. Find the ones who will!!
 
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Originally posted by Teddybear666:


simple solution

ask the girl this question

do you like me ?

you'll get a yes or no answer and find out one way or another
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I think this is quite a good idea. If she is "one-wording" you, and you don't want to leave -ask her direct! "Do you like me?",or "Do you want to talk to me?" or "Am I the kind of guy you would be interested in?" .That kind of stuff. Get a definitive answer. The thing is most people dont want to hurt peoples feelings so they might still say "oh no....I do want to talk to you but.." Look at their body language as well.
 
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What I have found works best is being humorous or having some other little game when approaching. These chicks probably have had guys asking her questions like 'how was your day?', etc. all day, and it gets annoying as **** to them. They just want to sit down and have a good time and not being the center of attention, which usually involves them not having to use too much thinking processes
 
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Originally posted by syncmaster:
You people aren't understanding. I"m not trying to lay her. I'm her friend. I just want her to talk. She likes me... i don't like her.
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Bulls**t.

If you didn't like her you would'nt be asking for advice on how to talk to her.

In any case, take the advice that Ralfus and KevM gave and use it on another girl.

The same thing happened to me a few weeks ago at work.

Survivor: "Hey, when did you start working here?"

Chickenhead: "Last week." (Nose up in the air.)

Survivor: "So where are you from?"

Chickenhead: "Atlanta." (She never looked in my face. Silence for 6 seconds.)

At that point I didn't even say goodbye. I WALKED AWAY!
 
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I've had chicks go monosyllabic on me before. I cannot stand it. I give them three chances, as in 3 questions for a convo. If all I get are one word answers, I simply break off and talk to someone else. It's not worth my time to prod this kind of situation.

Everytime I've done this, 70% of the time they'll come after me and now THEY'LL try start the convo. I'll be difficult for a bit, but then I'll settle into the convo mood.

Yes it's a stupid game. Unfortunately we all have to play it. Peak said it best : "We should just adopt a winning position in the game, rather than try convince ourselves that there is no game."

So if they do come after you, great, mission accomplished, minimal work on your bit. I don't like to nag anyone for a convo, because the fact is even I don't feel like chatting from time to time. That's how the other 30% feel. And from those, 2/3's will try start a convo the next time.

As for that other 1/3, well, no loss. There are other people in the world. You said it yourself Sync, it takes two people for a convo to work. You can't expect to clap with just one hand.

- Raoul

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Raoul:
I've had chicks go monosyllabic on me before. I cannot stand it. I give them three chances, as in 3 questions for a convo. If all I get are one word answers, I simply break off and talk to someone else. It's not worth my time to prod this kind of situation.

Everytime I've done this, 70% of the time they'll come after me and now THEY'LL try start the convo. I'll be difficult for a bit, but then I'll settle into the convo mood.

Yes it's a stupid game. Unfortunately we all have to play it. Peak said it best : "We should just adopt a winning position in the game, rather than try convince ourselves that there is no game."

So if they do come after you, great, mission accomplished, minimal work on your bit. I don't like to nag anyone for a convo, because the fact is even I don't feel like chatting from time to time. That's how the other 30% feel. And from those, 2/3's will try start a convo the next time.

As for that other 1/3, well, no loss. There are other people in the world. You said it yourself Sync, it takes two people for a convo to work. You can't expect to clap with just one hand.

- Raoul

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EXCELLENT IDEA!!! I think you've had the best idea yet. I love the idea of the 3 chances. I"m going to do that from now on. Thanks a lot Raoul.

- p.s are you going to mail me back
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