Girls will only care when it's convenient for them

[Trump]

It's probably been said several times before but I think it's important as I'm seeing it a lot more nowadays. Guys should always remember girls will only care when things are going well; money is spent, business is good, they are having fun. When things start to turn a little for the worse, when there are hassles, health issues, money issues, inconveniences, roadblocks, they will not love you, care about you, or even want you to exist. They will let fight your own battle and try to be as hands off as possible.

They want to give as little as possible and get as much in return. The same girl that you want to complete you, that you want to love, cherish and honour with your body and soul, will not even speak at your funeral. The same girl that you want to love, cherish and honour, wouldn't mind if you were wiped off the face off the earth, IF she could get the same resources from you as when you were alive.

Always remember, girls are only in it to to EXTRACT out of you. They will only care about you when it's convenient for them.

 

[bb47]

Yes, you are right. On the other hand, be careful not to fall into a victim mentality because of this. Victims are victims because they think the aggressor has something they need or takes away something they need. Some guys end up as victims when they claim women are cruel, won't accept them, etc. That's because they think they need to get sex or acceptance from women in order to be happy, free from shame, or whatever. You don't.

So "girls are only in it to to EXTRACT out of you". So what? If you don't need anything from them, then why does that even matter?

 

[El Payaso]

Wish I could prove you wrong from person experience. I have heard of situations to the contrary.

An exception not the rule.

 

[Jetleg]

Short answer is yes its true, but im fine with it.

Im only pissed off because it's acceptable in society. if a women leaves a guy because he lost his job (for whatever reason, even an injury) it's acceptable, he is a loser! Right?

If a woman gains 200 kg and looks like a cow and you'll break up with her, you are a f*cking pig, go burn in hell for that.

Women using men is fine, men using women is a big taboo

 

[Who Dares Win]

Just think of divorces, they still get the money out of him while leaving the poor guy to live under a bridge yet not a slight discomfort hit them.

70% of divorces are initiated from women, has to be a coincidence right?...not all women are like that says someone.

 

[Poon King]

Which is why seeking things like "security" in women is idiotic.

All loyalty in women comes from some form of dependence. This is why marriage USED to work. It was because only men had access to resources and only men could provide them to women. Not the case anymore.

So the next question becomes why get married? Why become a provider? Why give a f*ck about what women want at all? A lot of men are still stuck in 1950 when it comes to their relationship "goals". That world doesn't exist anymore and smart men have figure that out. The men who haven't figured it out will learn the hard way. Spinning plates is the best policy for satisfying your sexual appetite. LTR's are strictly for reproduction. They should never be used by a man to gain any kind of emotional security. Fat chance there.

Its foolish to plan your life around outdated norms that no longer serve your best interest.

 

[The Duke]

It's probably been said several times before but I think it's important as I'm seeing it a lot more nowadays. Guys should always remember girls will only care when things are going well; money is spent, business is good, they are having fun. When things start to turn a little for the worse, when there are hassles, health issues, money issues, inconveniences, roadblocks, they will not love you, care about you, or even want you to exist. They will let fight your own battle and try to be as hands off as possible.

They want to give as little as possible and get as much in return. The same girl that you want to complete you, that you want to love, cherish and honour with your body and soul, will not even speak at your funeral. The same girl that you want to love, cherish and honour, wouldn't mind if you were wiped off the face off the earth, IF she could get the same resources from you as when you were alive.

Always remember, girls are only in it to to EXTRACT out of you. They will only care about you when it's convenient for them.

This is the mindset that you get when you date too many schitty women that were in it for the wrong reasons to begin with. If you want better women, filter harder. Start turning them down if they don't meet your standards. Hotness and Sechs are important but don't let it blind you, or you will end up in schitty situations down the road.

Put a list together of what you are looking for. If they don't meet those qualifications then you don't go out with them. Simple as that.