"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls whom are serious

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I tried joking around and changing subjects to make it fun. But she is still not biting, she is very serious and told me she is a serious woman. How do you handle this if you talk to girls whom are very serious and making jokes don't work on them? I'm not saying my jokes suck but I think my jokes are pretty funny because I make my friends laugh a lot. Will be helpful if someone could stir me to the right direction.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"serious"? more like "doesn't possess the personality or fun attitude required to keep me entertained."

next.

or just low interest level. ha.
 
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mustfirstregister said:
I tried joking around and changing subjects to make it fun. But she is still not biting, she is very serious and told me she is a serious woman. How do you handle this if you talk to girls whom are very serious and making jokes don't work on them? I'm not saying my jokes suck but I think my jokes are pretty funny because I make my friends laugh a lot. Will be helpful if someone could stir me to the right direction.
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She sucks. Don't waste your time.
 
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There are more hot non-serious chicks in the sea.
Don't obsess over one or you will lose her.
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But if you DO want her then continue to talk with her and have fun. Basically you have to show her that it's okay for her to be herself around you. Evenyones "inner child" wants to come out. Some just have a harder time trusting people.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hit the next button dude,if your funny for sure and she isnt intrigued she's got to go....
 
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yeah, don't even bother man.. i've been in your shoes many times. i'm a very funny guy cause many girls have told me that i make them laugh alot. ive met girls who i try joke with and they get all pissed off and serious. those girls are just idiots. don't waste your time because you will get angry eventually cause you try too hard!
 
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NO,marry her so her "serious" side[no fun in life at all]can rule your life and she turns it as dull and boring as hers. And if you can't catch the sarcasm and marry her I'll LMFAO.
 
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