"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls whom are serious

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I tried joking around and changing subjects to make it fun. But she is still not biting, she is very serious and told me she is a serious woman. How do you handle this if you talk to girls whom are very serious and making jokes don't work on them? I'm not saying my jokes suck but I think my jokes are pretty funny because I make my friends laugh a lot. Will be helpful if someone could stir me to the right direction.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"serious"? more like "doesn't possess the personality or fun attitude required to keep me entertained."

next.

or just low interest level. ha.
 
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mustfirstregister said:
I tried joking around and changing subjects to make it fun. But she is still not biting, she is very serious and told me she is a serious woman. How do you handle this if you talk to girls whom are very serious and making jokes don't work on them? I'm not saying my jokes suck but I think my jokes are pretty funny because I make my friends laugh a lot. Will be helpful if someone could stir me to the right direction.
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She sucks. Don't waste your time.
 
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There are more hot non-serious chicks in the sea.
Don't obsess over one or you will lose her.
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But if you DO want her then continue to talk with her and have fun. Basically you have to show her that it's okay for her to be herself around you. Evenyones "inner child" wants to come out. Some just have a harder time trusting people.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hit the next button dude,if your funny for sure and she isnt intrigued she's got to go....
 
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yeah, don't even bother man.. i've been in your shoes many times. i'm a very funny guy cause many girls have told me that i make them laugh alot. ive met girls who i try joke with and they get all pissed off and serious. those girls are just idiots. don't waste your time because you will get angry eventually cause you try too hard!
 
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NO,marry her so her "serious" side[no fun in life at all]can rule your life and she turns it as dull and boring as hers. And if you can't catch the sarcasm and marry her I'll LMFAO.
 
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