"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Girls who steal threads

trojanman88

Banned
Joined
Oct 22, 2006
Messages
207
Reaction score
0
I'm really good at starting conversations but whenever I do there is always like 8 girls stepping in and stomping on my conversation by trying to out talk me. That's how interesting the conversations are that I have with women. But they are still meant for the target so yeah I dont know how to keep up with these conversation pirates.

I'm thinking about using canned material so I can expect response and respond quicker than anyone, cuz you just can't tell a girl not to interrupt you. Plus thier normally is like 5 of them lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

squirrels

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2003
Messages
6,620
Reaction score
186
Age
47
Location
A universe...where heartbreak and sadness have bee
That's why you isolate and work with one or two at a time. You have to have a LOT of charisma to carry a whole crowd of obnoxious girls.
 

trojanman88

Banned
Joined
Oct 22, 2006
Messages
207
Reaction score
0
I don't want to avoid the situation and isolate cuz I want multiple chicks to like me. And I want to learn the skills it takes to be a true don juan thats why i'm here. Plus i'm not always in a situation where I can move the girl...:kick:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Mr. Wolf

Banned
Joined
Sep 27, 2007
Messages
722
Reaction score
5
You lead them as a very good professor in college class. Like Dr. Hous for example.. Having your favorites, and your idiots.
 

Play the Game

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 5, 2007
Messages
680
Reaction score
6
Location
Nirvana
Just ignore the rude girl, pretend you didn't even hear her and keep on talking.
You're letting her break into your frame.... can't let that sh1t phase you. You have to create a mental barrier between her and your conversation, send her a message that she's not part of it.
 

Damand

New Member
Joined
Nov 27, 2007
Messages
9
Reaction score
0
Start the conversation with a girl next to your target... when your target Pirates the conversation say in a powerful voice, "It's kind of rude how your friend likes to interrupt me." Glance at your target with a smirk, then continue conversation with her friend.

Provides a good chance for kino, you can put your hand on her arm and say something like "its okay dear, i forgive you".

eventually migrate towards talking to your target and try to isolate her. ask if she wants to sit down somewhere.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 7, 2007
Messages
826
Reaction score
9
Age
34
Location
My bed, your girl.
lol don't use canned material. you can always isolate girls if you want a 90% interruption-free environment.

To be able to AMOG a group of chaotic b!tches you gotta be able to control the flow of the whole conversation, meaning you absolutely need the interest of some of the girls to keep control of them.

It's all about control. Be the man in control... make them your b!tches :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Top