"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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girls who sit next to you on train/bus...

tony-montana

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surely when a girl enters a bus/train and looks around for a seat... she looks at the person before she sits next to them to judge them... i mean if she seen some bald headed, bearded, scars on face, bikie kinda guy she would avoid sitting near him. so its safe to say the girl probably thinks you're a nice guy (perhaps attractive) enough to sit next to?

happened to me a few times. it's a bit of a privellaged to know a girl is comfortable sitting next to you. even though theres plenty other empty places.

like just the other week. i sat down at front of train and there was so many empty chairs but this hot girl sits right infront of me. not sure if i was dreamin but she kept flicking her hair. i didnt do nothing though. couldnt be fuked.

what you guys think. does it happen alot to you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Happened a few times but i didn't want to talk to them because i had just had a coffee + cigerette so my breathe smelled like ass :(

Always carry mints i guess...
 
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tony-montana said:
like just the other week. i sat down at front of train and there was so many empty chairs but this hot girl sits right infront of me. not sure if i was dreamin but she kept flicking her hair. i didnt do nothing though. couldnt be fuked.

what you guys think. does it happen alot to you?
You didn't you talk to her?

Whatever you do, don't just sit there like a zombie.

Say "Hey, how are you? what's your name? My name is .... nice to meet you" And shake her hand... then proceed with game. If she acts cold, forget it and do it again when you see the next HB.

This advice will get you a long way bro.
 

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i know how it goes i just chose to not talk to her. like i said i simply couldn't be fuked chatting her up :)
 
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tony-montana said:
i know how it goes i just chose to not talk to her. like i said i simply couldn't be fuked chatting her up :)

Would Tony Montana just sit there because he was lazy? HELL NO!

He would be getting that #, and tapping that a$$ the same night. And then making her pay the rent.

Live up to your user name! I expect an update soon where you talked to her and at least tried.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tony-montana said:
Lol! tony is the man.

Seriously bro it would be much better to see a post from you that said "I talked to her, and she wasn't interested and she kicked me in the balls with steel toed boots"

That is much better than a post that says you didn't even try. Be ready for rejection, it will come most of the time. That's the way it is, don't let it get you down. But one time she will say "yes" and you'll be good to go.. trust me man I've been trying this stuff for a long time.
 

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Vlad the 1mpaler said:
Seriously bro it would be much better to see a post from you that said "I talked to her, and she wasn't interested and she kicked me in the balls with steel toed boots"

That is much better than a post that says you didn't even try. Be ready for rejection, it will come most of the time. That's the way it is, don't let it get you down. But one time she will say "yes" and you'll be good to go.. trust me man I've been trying this stuff for a long time.
Yes, I would have even liked a story about Tony being a **** and kicking her ass of the seat if she dissed him.
 

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I've banged two girls who sat next to me on planes. Hey, you're both going in the same direction anyway!
 

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ive gotten a few numbers on the train. came close to bangin one of them. i take the amtrak uip the west coast a lot, and im tellin you man, there is just an AURA that surrounds the place that everyone is horny. i swear to god. its just a feel that the train has...mad IOIs from girls and stuff
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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actually, i just remembered. a friend of mine made out with this hot girl on the train who he just met like 20 mins before.

started talking about boyfriends and getting kind of suggestive, and he said something like, "so is your boyfriend a good kisser?" and she just giggled and he said "i bet im a better kisser" and they started making out
 

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me and my friends took a bus, then a train to the city. this girl on the bus was on the same train as us.. she approached us and asked if we were stalking her (jokingly) sat next to us and talked to my friends. i didn't talk to her. just told her my name when she asked. when we got off i dont know why but i bumped into her minutes later off the train and gave her my number. she called two days later. we had a date... next day she left school early and we met... and fuked.
 
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