Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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girls who only date guys with a bach degree and nothing less

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i now girls who won;t date guys with no bachelor degree . a diploma in omputers or a cert in aircraft tech, a chef cert or a certification won't even do. on top of it the degree it has to come from a well known university too ubc, sfu, can;t be from cap college, douglas , kwantlen.....etc and he has to have a well paying job in a certain field like comp sci, CA, lawyer, pharmacy, something that is or tends to make lots of money when you finish. ...etc too the higher the education the better. .a liberal arts degree, pscy degree won;t do. the girls won;t even look at u if you don;t have a least a bachelor and on top of it you and your family must own a nice house or even more than one
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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they want a successful man..whats so wrong with that?

i have a bach degree in computer science from a good college and i wont date a woman that doesnt have a bach degree and a good job.
 

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No objections to that - the only thing that annoys me is when ugly girls start making unrealistic demands about salary. Apart from that I think it's good that women demand education and a career from a potential boyfriend, it means that egg-heads like me are in with a shout.
 

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If I sense that a girl likes me because I have a law degree, I'll let her imagine herself in some kept wife picket fence fantasy long enough for me to get her into bed...then after she's put out on the first date, I'll never call again. Women who wh0re themselves out like that deserve to be treated like cheap wh0res. Obviously, it does not keep me from fvcking them, but it is still very unattractive behavior.
 

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Amante Silvestre said:
There's a difference between a woman simply looking for a successful man vs. one that makes prerequisite educational and financial demands up front. The latter are already planning for the divorce, if you ask me.

I don't provide resumes and jump through hoops for a date. A woman has no fuking business sticking her nose in that deep before a relationship of any kind takes hold.
Agree with this here. She has no business in MY Business.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Amante Silvestre said:
There's a difference between a woman simply looking for a successful man vs. one that makes prerequisite educational and financial demands up front. The latter are already planning for the divorce, if you ask me.

I don't provide resumes and jump through hoops for a date. A woman has no fuking business sticking her nose in that deep before a relationship of any kind takes hold.
ya but how can you tell if shes looking for a successful driven man or shes looking into your edcution and finanicals up front. i mean how can you tell the difference. its hard
 

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joe45 said:
ya but how can you tell if shes looking for a successful driven man or shes looking into your edcution and finanicals up front. i mean how can you tell the difference. its hard
you can tell if you're attentive enough. IE if you feel like you're at a job interview, no one's having fun, etc
 

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Amante got it right. My goal is just to go out and have fun. We aren't going to solve math problems together. It's good to have standards, but that's a turnoff. Joe you don't find it weird that a girl will judge you entirely by your degree?
 

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joe45 said:
i now girls who won;t date guys with no bachelor degree . a diploma in omputers or a cert in aircraft tech, a chef cert or a certification won't even do. on top of it the degree it has to come from a well known university too ubc, sfu, can;t be from cap college, douglas , kwantlen.....etc and he has to have a well paying job in a certain field like comp sci, CA, lawyer, pharmacy, something that is or tends to make lots of money when you finish. ...etc too the higher the education the better. .a liberal arts degree, pscy degree won;t do. the girls won;t even look at u if you don;t have a least a bachelor and on top of it you and your family must own a nice house or even more than one
Those women are best avoided... they're basically saying they want a wealthy man indirectly.
 

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Amante Silvestre said:
There's a difference between a woman simply looking for a successful man vs. one that makes prerequisite educational and financial demands up front. The latter are already planning for the divorce, if you ask me.

I don't provide resumes and jump through hoops for a date. A woman has no fuking business sticking her nose in that deep before a relationship of any kind takes hold.
Spot on
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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joe45 said:
i now girls who won;t date guys with no bachelor degree....

So she wouldn't date Bill Gates, or Michael Dell, or Steve Jobs, or Frank Lloyd Wright? It's certainly legitimate for a woman to demand a mate with financial stability (or at least the possibility of it in the future), but straight up gold-digging hors like these are to be avoided at all cost.

Its too bad so many AFCs fall for and marry these bit-ches and come to regret it a few years later when they have to pay alimony for the rest of their lives.
 

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Why would an educated man want to settle for gold digging AWs anyway
 

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i will only consider 18-22 rich girls and has a mansion other than that i pass
 

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joe45 said:
i now girls who won;t date guys with no bachelor degree . a diploma in omputers or a cert in aircraft tech
:crackup: :crackup:

C'mon man, you gotta do better than that. This isn't writing class, but that's just ridiculous. :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Seems to me that even if one is a really good DJ but is poor + lowly paid job, a lot of chicks will see reality sooner or later, and will treat you like someone to have fun+sex with, and not as potential boyfriend / husband material.

So, at the end of the day, you continue being a tool to make them feel good while they find someone of husband material.
 

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Women want men to have money so there feel taken care of?...but wouldn't that also count as gold digging??. Women cant take care of themselves financially so they want to eat off men.

What ever happened to
 

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Nikar said:
Seems to me that even if one is a really good DJ but is poor + lowly paid job, a lot of chicks will see reality sooner or later, and will treat you like someone to have fun+sex with, and not as potential boyfriend / husband material.

So, at the end of the day, you continue being a tool to make them feel good while they find someone of husband material.
Why would someone want to be "husband material" in the first place? I would rather be the guy that has sex with the girls and they move on to the next one. Forget trying to marry them that's ridiculous *****-whipped bull****!

I'd rather be the poor guy having sex for free now instead of being the ex-husband that pays alimony the years ahead while she ****s other dudes! It's a 50-50 state where I live!
 

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wutangfinancial said:
yes, I get it-you guys only date girls that like ugly, loserish, uneducated guys. Anything else is chumpish.

Um, basically you're rationalizing dating the 300 lb chick that works the register at Walmart, cuz that's all you'll get.

Simply put, if you're not good looking, and you want to date good looking girls, why on earth would you object to the money demands? Thank God you're not an ugly girl...there's nothing they can do.

BTW, I'm almost done with my BA in economics from McGill. I'm not bragging, it's just that I think you're being unfair. I can't control my looks, but I can control my education.
Not everybody has oppertunities to get an education and having BA's etc doesn't mean the man is smarter than people without BA's.

You might think the woman has standards but really it's just money standards and everything else doesn't matter so for me it's a low standard woman who behaves like that. Total lack of class..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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