"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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girls who live in diff. area codes

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john_1234

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if you get a # from a girl who lives about an hours drive away, what's a good way to go about handling it? i see a lot of drawbacks. first of all, it's a lot more time and energy. i would not want to drive that far for someone i hardly even know. and the girl would have an advantage over you since she knows you're driving miles to see her. as you all know, we all have to carry ourselves in a carefree i-can-walk-away-@-anytime manner but the fact that you drove miles to see her contradicts that attitude.
programs out there advise calling the girl to set the first meeting and to not stay on the phone any longer. but i'm thinking that for girls who live in diff. area codes, it would be best to do the opposite and gain rapport over the phone. how have you guys handled these girls from different area codes?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i got hoes.....in different area codes......

ahem. sorry. Maybe get here to come visit you? if she is that interested then she will. otherwise i don't know if it is worth the trouble. does she seem keen?
 
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Originally posted by lebRambo
i got hoes.....in different area codes......

ahem. sorry. Maybe get here to come visit you? if she is that interested then she will. otherwise i don't know if it is worth the trouble. does she seem keen?
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haha ... thats exactly what crossed my mind "ho's in diff area codes" ....

I'd just use em for a convo here and there ... maybe a lay if they come to your town or theirs ... keep the "busy" status up and bust on them as much as possible
 
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