"I just moved here from Florida."

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She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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john_1234

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if you get a # from a girl who lives about an hours drive away, what's a good way to go about handling it? i see a lot of drawbacks. first of all, it's a lot more time and energy. i would not want to drive that far for someone i hardly even know. and the girl would have an advantage over you since she knows you're driving miles to see her. as you all know, we all have to carry ourselves in a carefree i-can-walk-away-@-anytime manner but the fact that you drove miles to see her contradicts that attitude.
programs out there advise calling the girl to set the first meeting and to not stay on the phone any longer. but i'm thinking that for girls who live in diff. area codes, it would be best to do the opposite and gain rapport over the phone. how have you guys handled these girls from different area codes?
 

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i got hoes.....in different area codes......

ahem. sorry. Maybe get here to come visit you? if she is that interested then she will. otherwise i don't know if it is worth the trouble. does she seem keen?
 
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Originally posted by lebRambo
i got hoes.....in different area codes......

ahem. sorry. Maybe get here to come visit you? if she is that interested then she will. otherwise i don't know if it is worth the trouble. does she seem keen?
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haha ... thats exactly what crossed my mind "ho's in diff area codes" ....

I'd just use em for a convo here and there ... maybe a lay if they come to your town or theirs ... keep the "busy" status up and bust on them as much as possible
 
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