Girls who like texting a lot

[Infern0]

Standard operating procedure for me is to limit texting as much as possible, but what do you do If a girl brings it up?

One plate texts me at least 3 tines a day to initiate and has mentioned that I don't text back much, she said she just likes being in touch and talking to me. I've told her that when I'm busy generally I leave my phone in the office or in my gym locker but she still beings it up. I.e

"Wish you texted more :-("

"Miss you"

etc

I'm not having any issues getting her to hang out etc but in this situation should I text her a bit more?

 

[No.Danny]

Eh depends on how you feel man, stop referring to the old spanish guy manual. There are Xs and Os in this situation that we're not familiar with.
This is up to you, if I was you I'd maybe text her a little more just a tad. Don't want to make it seem like you're uninterested when you're just playing a game.

 

[old married dude]

Standard operating procedure for me is to limit texting as much as possible, but what do you do If a girl brings it up?

One plate texts me at least 3 tines a day to initiate and has mentioned that I don't text back much, she said she just likes being in touch and talking to me. I've told her that when I'm busy generally I leave my phone in the office or in my gym locker but she still beings it up. I.e

"Wish you texted more :-("

"Miss you"

etc

I'm not having any issues getting her to hang out etc but in this situation should I text her a bit more?

I wouldn't text more, all that's going to do is feed into her needy behavior. Just tell her you're busy with work, school, gym or whatever & that you'll talk to her when you have time.

 

[Pardner]

Once you start with the texting, it will start increasing all during the day.

 

[El Payaso]

Be adamant on your position and only reply when YOU want to. The moment she feels she can manipulate you by playing "poor me" or using any emotion, it's game over.

Unknowingly, she actually likes that you don't text her much. That's what makes her attracted to you. It gives her time to "miss you" so keep it up.

 

[GS750]

Be adamant on your position and only reply when YOU want to. The moment she feels she can manipulate you by playing "poor me" or using any emotion, it's game over.

Unknowingly, she actually likes that you don't text her much. That's what makes her attracted to you. It gives her time to "miss you" so keep it up.

Agreed. Sounds counterproductive. But...the fact that she feels like you don't text enough, or gets upset when you take a while to reply or don't reply at all, tells me you're doing something right. Because during those times you're on her mind and the hamster is spinning wondering what you're doing. So keep it up for sure.