Girls who just broke up with bf?

[aWolf]

So guys what are your takes on this one ?

How to act in this situation. She's one of my distsnt social network friends. I dont want to be in a rebiund/ savior relationship.

Everyday, i'm learning new stuff in this forum. Some of them are hard truthes, byt at least its the truth

 

[Maximus Rex]

What Are You Asking For?

So guys what are your takes on this one ?

Rex's take is you need to add more details to your threads.

 

[aWolf]

Rex's take is you need to add more details to your threads.

Early 20's i see her a couple of times a week
She's been in a relationship for 1 year and a half. Had a decond relationship for 4 months ( this is the last one ) she's sad but not broken

 

[j.619]

Early 20's i see her a couple of times a week
She's been in a relationship for 1 year and a half. Had a decond relationship for 4 months ( this is the last one ) she's sad but not broken

She's probably broken too

 

[Induced Drag]

I can only speak from my past experience with my ex. She was with her ex for 8 years. I was so naive. At the time I didn't know that in and of itself was a huge red flag. I had a great time with her but she was a bit of a mess inside. I'd say you could call her broken. A lot of these women will heal but the timetable for this to happen is a lot longer than they think.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Red flag.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Red flag.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

It depends on who did the breaking up. If she's the one who initiated it, she was probably out of the relationship mentally for MONTHS before she dumped him, meaning she'd be sad, but less of a chance she'd want to get back with him. If he's the one who dumped her, proceed with caution. Not saying it couldn't work, but you have to work your way in slooooooowly and not try to rush her into a new relationship right away. This means taking her out once a week but not calling/texting her all the time; no "future speak" (i.e. "we should plan to do this and this and this together"); and letting HER come to YOU with the various emotional statements (i.e. "so, what are we?" or "i feel this way about you, how do you feel about me?") Just be laid back and PATIENT, and you might have a change.

MIGHT...

 

[aWolf]

I can only speak from my past experience with my ex. She was with her ex for 8 years. I was so naive. At the time I didn't know that in and of itself was a huge red flag. I had a great time with her but she was a bit of a mess inside. I'd say you could call her broken. A lot of these women will heal but the timetable for this to happen is a lot longer than they think.

I know that if I acted total AFC i would be her emotional tampon.
I dont honestly think the girl I'm talking about is broken. I've seen her when she really loved a guy

And this guy she's been with was a total chump

 

[aWolf]

It depends on who did the breaking up. If she's the one who initiated it, she was probably out of the relationship mentally for MONTHS before she dumped him, meaning she'd be sad, but less of a chance she'd want to get back with him. If he's the one who dumped her, proceed with caution. Not saying it couldn't work, but you have to work your way in slooooooowly and not try to rush her into a new relationship right away. This means taking her out once a week but not calling/texting her all the time; no "future speak" (i.e. "we should plan to do this and this and this together"); and letting HER come to YOU with the various emotional statements (i.e. "so, what are we?" or "i feel this way about you, how do you feel about me?") Just be laid back and PATIENT, and you might have a change.

MIGHT...

She broke up with him. Told him they could be friends texting all the time and stuff like that, the stupid guy agreed to be friends with her

I'm not in a rush to bang her, I'm currently spinning 4 plates right now. You can say I'm addicted to experience every situation and how you manage it into your favor.

Thanks for the advice man, will do