"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girls who have foreign phone numbers and dont reply cos they're cheap

drift king

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i got this girl's number last week all be it her international number as she hasn't got a local sim yet.

anyway she told me before i number closed that she doesn't pick up her calls cos it costs her so much cos of roaming costs so only text her.

i felt this was leading up to a flake. most likely she'll give u the number and then just not reply. i said it was ok.

so being an idiot i texted her to meet up today or tomorrow, she didn't reply. her english is ok but not writing wise. either way she should respond to me regardless of being cheap right?

i should have just ignored what she said and called her despite it costing her a lot cos of the roaming charges so at least i know when/if we're meeting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if they barely know you, i find it a bad idea to set certain times. it makes them feel pressured. If you would have said something along the lines of "hey, want to get something to eat later this week?" or "hey, lets grab a bite sometime" would make them feel less pressured and give them a chance to respond over the whole week whether they can make it or not.

By setting a certain date and time, you not taking into account if she has plans or not which would ruin your chances. might also make you seem too rushy/needy.

If you told your girlfriend not to call you during the day and to only text you because you have limited minutes.....would you be pissed if she called u during the day??

Learn patience, always give space and never set yourself for failure. give your alot of options and time.

Instead of saying lets hang out saturday, say lets hang out this weekend. give you more chances of not having her flaking on you. When you have the date set up have multiple places ready to go to incase she decides she wants chinese/sushi/italian, etc.

women don't like guys that don't know what they're doing, so know what your supposed to do and act like it. if she changes her mind don't worry because u'll already have the answer to the next question.
 

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Pay her phone bill if youre gonna keep b*tchin.
 
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