stovepipe
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Nope. They never change.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girls who drooled over the bad boy, then rebounded with a needy beta
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
cityboy989
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I can only recall ONE girl in my life who was an edgy "bad girl" with a tumultuous past, marrying a doofy-looking beta. I knew her several years ago. I come across her facebook recently and see she's MARRIED to some dude older than me, who I knew when I was a kid. He was in my karate class. Guy is a total doofus, and is not a good looking guy. Which is totally NOT what that girl had ever gone for in the past. I'm pretty sure she has kids from another guy. She was probably REALLY desperate for "stability." But again, that's the only crazy girl I know of personally who actually married her beta provider.
zekko
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Why is it all the betas are always unattractive, goofy looking guys in these stories and all the alphas are good looking, jacked guys? It's kind of a rhetorical question, I guess. But it kind of suggests that your looks dictates your level of success, and your confidence/frame/attitude. Which again makes sense, I guess.
But I remember awhile back guys not being impressed with a PUA's success if they were good looking. What impressed them was when a plain looking or even unattractive dude was able to be successful. Those were the guys who got respect for their game. Because if a good looking guy got laid, what did that prove? It didn't prove that his method worked, just that girls responded to good looking guys.
greatsnake
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these women usually want the stability and what not, but after their nookies have been wrecked by the bad boys, some screws go missing in the process. When the nice guy comes around, they won't know how to be in a relationship with one and ruin it one way or another.
It's no-win situation for them.
It's no-win situation for them.
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Online dating is an endless dumpster of these chicks. Another variation that fits in with Desdinova s high score theory is the shopping list chick. One who wants a guy thats tuff but tender, driven but always wants to spend time with her, yada yada. She's built up a perfect identikit boyfriend in a head from the good qualities of every guy she's ever dated.
Basically she ll date guys coz the puss needs pounding but quickly dump them for not meeting her impossibly high standards.
It doesn't seem to matter what the girl herself brings to the table because of all this go girl nonsense she thinks she's worth it.
And then after a while she doesn't even put out anymore and it's time to put in that cat order. I've been through heaps of these fortunately it's pretty obvious they always bring the shopping list out on the first date.
Basically she ll date guys coz the puss needs pounding but quickly dump them for not meeting her impossibly high standards.
It doesn't seem to matter what the girl herself brings to the table because of all this go girl nonsense she thinks she's worth it.
And then after a while she doesn't even put out anymore and it's time to put in that cat order. I've been through heaps of these fortunately it's pretty obvious they always bring the shopping list out on the first date.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cityboy989
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Especially the chicks who "just want to be treated right" a.k.a Mr Nice Guy. Then they get bored and their ham wallets need some more alpha dink
zekko
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"Ham wallets need some more alpha drink"? I confess I haven't heard that one before.