"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls who chase guys are low quality trash.

Would you marry a girl who has been chasing you?

  • Yes

    Votes: 6 54.5%
  • No

    Votes: 5 45.5%

  • Total voters
    11

Suspens

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Most PUA and game 'tutorials' are trying to help you learn how to get girls to chase you. So what are the tricks:
  • Ignoring her
  • PushNpull
  • Neg
  • Abandonment dread

The chicks then wonder why you are acting like that, is there anything wrong with them? Aren't they the same beautiful queens they used to be?

These insecure damaged hoes start doubting themselves. They start chasing you so hard just to get your attention and prove that they were thinking wrong, but that's not enough .

If you play your cards right, they would do anything for you, not because you are the prize or any crap like that. You shook up her fragile confidence by using those 'tricks' and now she is just trying to destroy the main source of their insecurity, which is your indifference.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DiegoSantori

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I'm a guy worth chasing after. So, I disagree.

Plus, you are overgeneralizing: If you are a 5/10 guy, of course, women chasing you won't be high class ladies. But if you are a 9/10 guy or 10/10 guy, there are definitely some attractive signoras willing to chase you.
 

badboyjmm

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I would certainly have my way with a girl that has been chasing me.

However I have answered no to the poll because I don't see marriage as a viable option for me.
 

thatfeel

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I agree that the main point is being overgeneralized, in fact, I'm not even sure the claim is being supported by the argued points mostly because correlation does not equal causation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zapp Brannigan

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There are two extremes to this.

The chicks who you don't know or just met who chase you hard are always trouble. They're out looking for d**k, and someone to replace their last boyfriend. From my experience these chicks are VERY toxic, and don't get along with anyone for very long. These are the ones to stay away from.

As for chicks who you've known or been around for a bit that start chasing you, it depends. Some attention wh0res will gravitate toward you only because you aren't chasing them, they obviously don't care, and aren't worth it. But then you'll have that rare chick who isn't like that, who's genuinely interested in you, and if they start chasing I'd say go for it.

You just have to read into things and use your best judgement.
 
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