"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girls who are Virgins VS. Non Virgins

DJnoob

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which one is easier to shag from your experience.

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why does it matter?
 

GloriouslyInsane

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There are virgins that are like that because of outside factors that are horny as hell and there are girls that were raped at a young age (non-virgins) that wouldn't put out to save mankind.It doesn't boil down to virgin or nonvirgin.
 

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I see higher value being with a girl who has less sexual partners than someone who is perceived as higher sexual partners. If a girl just f*cks around with 20-30 guys before she gets married to some guy who probably only had 2-3 girls. That is unfair, not in sexual terms but because this girl couldn't keep her legs closed for someone well worth a good relationship, it speaks loud that she was just looking for flings here and there. Is that kind of person you want for a wife? Sure she probably is very good in bed (or not) but having a girl that is less experienced or at least equal partners to you is better in a "fairer" sense.
 
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Judging a woman on the number of her sexual encounters is the same concpet whether you are looking for a virgin with no experience, or a wh0re with hundreds.

It is judging a woman according to sexual desire.

Hitman, it is not "fair" to look at the picture from any sexual standpoint. The only viewpoint that is "fair" would be to judge the woman according to her own reasons.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stackthestyles said:
Hitman, it is not "fair" to look at the picture from any sexual standpoint. The only viewpoint that is "fair" would be to judge the woman according to her own reasons.
Um why?

If she does something i disagree with and i think her reasons are dumb then i still get to hate her cause she cant come up with the right reasons.
 
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You just said what I said but a different way Mr. Ruckus(doesn't that make you feel old?)

If a womans reason to be a virgin is to wait for the right guy, than I think that is stupid. If the first guy she gets with is an assh0le and ruins her life, she will feel horrible... what comes afterwards could be potential disaster, and she could be damaged goods for the simplest of reasons.

If the woman is a slut, but has a life, has great friends, is great in bed, laughs only at your good jokes, isn't a gold digger, smart enough to start phil. discussions, etc... and her reason is because it is stupid to live a pathetic life looking for attention, are you going to judge her on the number of sexual partners she has had?
 
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