"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
girls who are Virgins VS. Non Virgins
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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It is judging a woman according to sexual desire.
Hitman, it is not "fair" to look at the picture from any sexual standpoint. The only viewpoint that is "fair" would be to judge the woman according to her own reasons.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Um why?Stackthestyles said:Hitman, it is not "fair" to look at the picture from any sexual standpoint. The only viewpoint that is "fair" would be to judge the woman according to her own reasons.
If she does something i disagree with and i think her reasons are dumb then i still get to hate her cause she cant come up with the right reasons.
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If a womans reason to be a virgin is to wait for the right guy, than I think that is stupid. If the first guy she gets with is an assh0le and ruins her life, she will feel horrible... what comes afterwards could be potential disaster, and she could be damaged goods for the simplest of reasons.
If the woman is a slut, but has a life, has great friends, is great in bed, laughs only at your good jokes, isn't a gold digger, smart enough to start phil. discussions, etc... and her reason is because it is stupid to live a pathetic life looking for attention, are you going to judge her on the number of sexual partners she has had?