"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls Who Are "Too Interested"

evesman

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If you read an earlier post of mine, you know that some chicks are gaming me right now:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1431893#post1431893

However, they seem a little too interested or forward, and it's starting to unnerve me. The russian gal I spoke of has discovered where I live. It turns out she lives literally a block away. She also knows my schedule: when I leave home and of course, since we take the same seminar, when I go back home. She's told me about this two days in a row, and it weirds me out. On the one hand, yeah, it's ok to mention since we are neighbors. On the other hand, it feels "stalker-ish" to me. Am I being overly concerned?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonGorgon

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evesman said:
No one has experienced anything like this?
I have noticed that many women do this (act too attached too soon) to get you wrapped up in them ,you fall for them and the attention then you start craving it that is when they pull back.. so stay casual and be aloof..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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