Girls who are REALLY drunk?

[Infern0]

A ex from a while back just hit me up because she was nearby and i told her to come over so she staggers into my room white girl wasted, falling out of her top, a total ****ing mess. I'm totally sober as i'm on call tonight.

I give her a kiss and a slap on the ass and sent her packing with instructions to call me back when she was in a better state.

Right move or should i have tapped?

My moral compass told me it'd been a **** move, (although she's been messaging me heaps lately and i know she has been wanting to reconnect tonight just confirmed it) But just wondering your guys thoughts?

(in case your wondering we broke up because i was depressed at the time for about 3 months and i basically pushed her away, the RS was good but i was dealing with a ton of external **** and she's been a bit touchy about me pushing her away ever since but i wouldn't mind trying again now i'm good)

 

[sosousage]

if there was drunk girl attracted to me lying on my bed

I would do it

 

[Julian]

Depends on the girl. I know some girls NEED to get drunk in order to have sex. fked up millennial brains these days on these females.

Now if it was a chick who I knew liked me/fukked before/exgf/ etc...and I knew she could handle her alcohol and she was coherant and functional then thats a different story. I once had a neighbor chick who came to my gym often...we got to chatting and I invited her over...we got in bed and she had anti slut defense goin. So I was like hey its cool seeya later.

Fast forward a couple days shes knockin on my door in a bathing suit (our apt had indoor pool an sauna etc) and she was drunk as fuk. I turned her ass away cuz fuk that. I didnt know her well enough, I didnt like that she had to show up drunk in order to bang..it was a red flag, and on top of that I was sober...we werent on the same level at all. if i was drunk too at the time things we would have had drunken monkey sex for sure but it just didnt feel right.

Some one night stand whos sloppy...nah bro im sweet. If its a girl i know who is just DTF then i dont see the problem as long as shes into it and shes the one pursuing it. I wouldnt take advantage of anyone under the influence...thats some dirtbag activity.

 

[Infern0]

Depends on the girl. I know some girls NEED to get drunk in order to have sex. fked up millennial brains these days on these females.

Now if it was a chick who I knew liked me/fukked before/exgf/ etc...and I knew she could handle her alcohol and she was coherant and functional then thats a different story. I once had a neighbor chick who came to my gym often...we got to chatting and I invited her over...we got in bed and she had anti slut defense goin. So I was like hey its cool seeya later.

Fast forward a couple days shes knockin on my door in a bathing suit (our apt had indoor pool an sauna etc) and she was drunk as fuk. I turned her ass away cuz fuk that. I didnt know her well enough, I didnt like that she had to show up drunk in order to bang..it was a red flag, and on top of that I was sober...we werent on the same level at all. if i was drunk too at the time things we would have had drunken monkey sex for sure but it just didnt feel right.

Some one night stand whos sloppy...nah bro im sweet. If its a girl i know who is just DTF then i dont see the problem as long as shes into it and shes the one pursuing it. I wouldnt take advantage of anyone under the influence...thats some dirtbag activity.

Aye

she was basically on the verge of passing out, and although she's hot as hell, it wasn't doing much for me in my totally sober state, maybe if we had been in regular contact it might have been different but we have just started repairing the damage so i think i did the right thing, she messaged me 10 mins after she left to thank me and wants to meet me tomorrow night so all good

 

[John Constantine]

You should have fvck her brain out.. How is this immoral, they're doing way worse in therm of immorality plus she's your ex.. It's not like she's a stranger

 

[Macaframalama]

You should have fvck her brain out.. How is this immoral, they're doing way worse in therm of immorality plus she's your ex.. It's not like she's a stranger

"she was basically on the verge of passing out"
Not passing judgement, we've probably all been in the same situation. Just seems like easy prey.

 

[John Constantine]

"she was basically on the verge of passing out"

And ? it's her ex, not a stranger

 

[Macaframalama]

And ? it's her ex, not a stranger

True. He obviously, thought it was questionable and turned off by her state of being at the time and seems to maybe, want to rekindle something they had in the past though.

 

[TheProspect]

You should have fvck her brain out.. How is this immoral, they're doing way worse in therm of immorality plus she's your ex.. It's not like she's a stranger

Morality aside, it's the perfect scenario to be charged for sexual assault if she decides she hates you when she wakes up the next day. In the context of the law (where I live at least), if she is deemed incapacitated at the time of the event while you are sober, you cannot use her blatant expression of consent for sex as a defence if she decides to press charges against you.

@Infern0 did the right thing. It's not always wise to put the temporary enjoyment of a vagina before rational thinking.

 

[btownbuck2012]

A ex from a while back just hit me up because she was nearby and i told her to come over so she staggers into my room white girl wasted, falling out of her top, a total ****ing mess. I'm totally sober as i'm on call tonight.

I give her a kiss and a slap on the ass and sent her packing with instructions to call me back when she was in a better state.

Right move or should i have tapped?

My moral compass told me it'd been a **** move, (although she's been messaging me heaps lately and i know she has been wanting to reconnect tonight just confirmed it) But just wondering your guys thoughts?

(in case your wondering we broke up because i was depressed at the time for about 3 months and i basically pushed her away, the RS was good but i was dealing with a ton of external **** and she's been a bit touchy about me pushing her away ever since but i wouldn't mind trying again now i'm good)

sexing women when they're that drunk is never a good idea imo.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

Hell naw, look at all these black dudes getting false rape charges right now! You did the right thing dude.

Pusssy ain't worth jail time bro..

 

[GT40]

Women who are drunk and sloppy aren’t attractive. She sounded like she had no comprehension that night. You can do better than that.
You did the right thing.