A few months ago I was at a party, and I ended up spending most of the party with this Girl I hardly ever spoke to before (but she was good friends with my Girl Friends). I was almost about to get off with her when we got bundled by some guys and the moment was ruined.
The next week i forgot about her, because I thought she had just tried to get with me at the party in order to get back at her Ex. But then a few weeks later she begins flirting with me, and being a budding Don Juan and recovering AFC, I decided to try some of the things I learnt from Sosuave on her. Things were going well, she seemed quite interested. I decided i would try and get off with her at this club everyone was going to. However, when I tried to talk to her at the club or initiate anything, she would ignore me. When I was dancing with some girls, my friend noticed that she kept staring at me and talking to her friend whilst looking at me. I later saw her getting off with some guy, and she noticed me and we made eye contact about 3 times, and she even smiled at me during her make out session lol.
So I thought she was trying to make me jealous, but i didn't care and later got off with 2 girls. I thought little more of it and ignored her the next week.
Then at a Christmas party i kept up the ignoring and calm indifference. Her bestfriend asked me at the party if I fancied the girl, and I said no. I later saw her in a bit of a state, talking with that friend and a boy(also her good friend), she looked a bit distressed about something and I later saw her kissing the boy.
The next day, her friend keeps trying to guess who I fancy and I remain ambiguous, throwing out a few possibilities, but she has the feeling I fancy the girl. And lo and behold she immediatly rings up the girl to talk with her about me, not sure what about, but I can only guess to figure out if i fancy her or not.
With a new years eve party coming up, I take these signs as she being interested in me, and plan to kiss her that night. Things start really well, but soon deteriorate as she begins to ignore me. At midnight, I think fvck it, i'll go in for the kiss. As I get to her though, i see that she's getting off with another boy... again (She got off with someone earlier that night).
The next day, on facebook, she begins trying to put me down with comments on the pics. I respond with my own witty put downs, and think nothing more of it. My friend is telling me to forget about her, that she is being a b1tch. I'm a bit confused by her weird behaviour, for it seems she could just be trying to get me to fancy her as a confident boost. And I'm not going to take that sh1t by putting my ass on the line for some attention seeking b1itch. We're not even friends, but acquaintances. Ofcourse, I'm not entirely sure on what action to take next. I don't care much how this turns out, but i would like to go out with her. Any thoughts?
The next week i forgot about her, because I thought she had just tried to get with me at the party in order to get back at her Ex. But then a few weeks later she begins flirting with me, and being a budding Don Juan and recovering AFC, I decided to try some of the things I learnt from Sosuave on her. Things were going well, she seemed quite interested. I decided i would try and get off with her at this club everyone was going to. However, when I tried to talk to her at the club or initiate anything, she would ignore me. When I was dancing with some girls, my friend noticed that she kept staring at me and talking to her friend whilst looking at me. I later saw her getting off with some guy, and she noticed me and we made eye contact about 3 times, and she even smiled at me during her make out session lol.
So I thought she was trying to make me jealous, but i didn't care and later got off with 2 girls. I thought little more of it and ignored her the next week.
Then at a Christmas party i kept up the ignoring and calm indifference. Her bestfriend asked me at the party if I fancied the girl, and I said no. I later saw her in a bit of a state, talking with that friend and a boy(also her good friend), she looked a bit distressed about something and I later saw her kissing the boy.
The next day, her friend keeps trying to guess who I fancy and I remain ambiguous, throwing out a few possibilities, but she has the feeling I fancy the girl. And lo and behold she immediatly rings up the girl to talk with her about me, not sure what about, but I can only guess to figure out if i fancy her or not.
With a new years eve party coming up, I take these signs as she being interested in me, and plan to kiss her that night. Things start really well, but soon deteriorate as she begins to ignore me. At midnight, I think fvck it, i'll go in for the kiss. As I get to her though, i see that she's getting off with another boy... again (She got off with someone earlier that night).
The next day, on facebook, she begins trying to put me down with comments on the pics. I respond with my own witty put downs, and think nothing more of it. My friend is telling me to forget about her, that she is being a b1tch. I'm a bit confused by her weird behaviour, for it seems she could just be trying to get me to fancy her as a confident boost. And I'm not going to take that sh1t by putting my ass on the line for some attention seeking b1itch. We're not even friends, but acquaintances. Ofcourse, I'm not entirely sure on what action to take next. I don't care much how this turns out, but i would like to go out with her. Any thoughts?
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