"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girls Want To Have Sex Right Away: How Do I Get Them To Wait?

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What? I thought you offered good advice, and I will use it: get the sex first, rapport later. I think that's a good solution. I didn't know you were being sarcastic. It's good feedback nonetheless. I give some more detail in my posts above.

DJ naruto said:
You answer my sarcastic comment spawned from your broad post, and neglect to give us a good scenario of when this happens so we can help you. I don't think you want help. You are just posting to post.

You are trolling :trouble:

cheers
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pimp the Hos!!!

Rapport is for wimps not pimps!!! Treat the hors like the hors that they are - and not like you want them to be!!
 

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DJ naruto said:
hehehehe. Sir, I'm with you. I'll even chip in on the gas money. :wave:

daytona beach suck! there is only a few good months here, well like 2, where its highschool spring break, college, then canadian...after that its back to being the trashiest town ever...and the locals here are FAT and redneckish...dude, all over the south girls are thick borderline fat...its ridiculous..
 

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Get out then, blackbelt! Go yankee or go west or go European!

(btw, check your inbox on this site. I emailed ya on my flight training experience).
 

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^^^ I can't wait to get out...first i have to graduate, lol... 2 more semesters...then off to grad school, somewhere... only thing is Riddle is one of the few abit acredited schools in the country....fuk!!!!! i seriously don't want to waste another 2 years of my life in gaytona.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't brush your teeth until you get chronic bad breath. And tell them you have AIDS.
 
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