"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls Want To Have Sex Right Away: How Do I Get Them To Wait?

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I've been thinking about my past experiences going out in the last couple months. I've noticed one thing over and over again. Girls do not need any rapport to have sex. This happens every night. For some reason, girls want to have sex right away. I can't get girls to a day2, they just want to have sex that night, sometimes instantaneously.

I would prefer to wait a day or so, but I'm finding this is basically impossible. Anybody else deal with this too?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Obsidian

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find less horish girlz. Where are you picking up these ladies?
 

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I travel a lot but mainly at clubs and bars. But sometimes grocery stores and cafes too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can you explain this further, assuming you are not a troll.

Do girls go up to you and say 'fvck me'? (which would probably be a sh1t test anyway - which gets me thinking, how do you know if girls really want sex or if they are sh1t testing you?)

I mean, how do you mean girls interested in sex without rapport. The only girls that would go for that would want money, right? But you still need some rapport to talk to her to make arrangements, right?

I concede I dont go to nightclubs, clubs, or any night-spots, but this is ludicrious.
 

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Why not rock her world so much that she wants to have a day two with you? And, ehem, what girls do you hang out with? You need to send one to me and maybe a few other brothers on here, and we'll convince them to have a day 2 with you. hehe. sorry bro, I couldn't resist.

What do you mean by you can't get a girl to day 2? What do you say? give us a scenario. Your post is too broad for any good advice that can cater especially to your problem.

cheers
 

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where the heck do you live?? im taking the week off and heading that way, roadtrip anyone?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BuckwildNYC said:
Looks like Skip got a new nickname :trouble:
Nah Skips new name is something like pimpoloic , this dude is geniune new troll..

so why r u so into bs this site dude
 

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total_afc said:
I've been thinking about my past experiences going out in the last couple months. I've noticed one thing over and over again. Girls do not need any rapport to have sex. This happens every night. For some reason, girls want to have sex right away. I can't get girls to a day2, they just want to have sex that night, sometimes instantaneously.

I would prefer to wait a day or so, but I'm finding this is basically impossible. Anybody else deal with this too?

You're an idiot!
 

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I kinda think you're trolling tbh...
 

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Niiiiice. It's great I can get quality feedback like this. I will do this, rather than make them wait for sex.

DJ naruto said:
Why not rock her world so much that she wants to have a day two with you?
 

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What? You are in daytona beach and you want to travel to hook up with girls? lol. It should be the other way around! I should be traveling out to florida man!

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where the heck do you live?? im taking the week off and heading that way, roadtrip anyone?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blackbelt2k said:
where the heck do you live?? im taking the week off and heading that way, roadtrip anyone?
hehehehe. Sir, I'm with you. I'll even chip in on the gas money. :wave:
 

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L777 said:
I kinda think you're trolling tbh...

the only way i see this **** of a thread being true is ur as good looking as antonio sabato jr.

Total-afc post ur pic....
 
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total_afc said:
Niiiiice. It's great I can get quality feedback like this. I will do this, rather than make them wait for sex.
Feedback this :box: you troll.
 

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total_afc said:
Niiiiice. It's great I can get quality feedback like this. I will do this, rather than make them wait for sex.

You answer my sarcastic comment spawned from your broad post, and neglect to give us a good scenario of when this happens so we can help you. I don't think you want help. You are just posting to post.

You are trolling :trouble:

cheers
 

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I posted this same response in my other thread but since these two threads are so closely related, I'll post it here also:

I've been thinking about this. I think what's happening is that I am subtly rejecting the girls myself first, especially since the girls come on so strong, and since they feel rejected, they don't want to date me in the future.

Like I'll chat with a girl, get a number, then create some rapport, then she'll re-approach me, but then I'll just blow her off, figuring I'll call her later for a date. When they re-approach me, they want me to game them some more and close it out that night. Or, they will try to sex me right away and makeout, and I'll back off. They take this as rejection, and not want to be in contact with me again. This is all starting to make sense now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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