"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls want confidence not good looks

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BULL****

Merja: np
Picollo: at least you were honest something that people really aren't
Merja: believe me, I wasn't try to diss you
Merja: sorry if it sounded bad
Picollo: may i ask you
Merja: ok
Picollo: what you did see that you disliked so much
Picollo: just curious
Merja: I didn't disliked you
Merja: didn't I said that
Merja: you just looked too average
Picollo: what does average means for you?
Merja: not really handsome
Merj
Merja: you just looked too average
Picollo: what does average means for you?
Merja: not really handsome
Merja: if I wanted a bf, I want goodlooking not normal looking
Picollo: you mean a ugly man
Merja: no
Merja: just normal
Merja: you look very normal
Picollo: arent we all?
Merja: not the kind that leaves in your mind on first look
Merja: I'd have to look you twice
Merja: so you'd be left in mymind
Merja: that's normal in my opinion
Merja: you really don't look italian or where are you from
Picollo: im not italian
Picollo: im portuguese
Merja: ok
Merja: well that either


here's your confidence
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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that **** also said i'm to boyish, whatever the **** that means. here's she commented in one of my photos

"You got nice colored eyes. And I'm not a dramaqueen or something like that but I wouldn't take you as my bf. I know I'm not beautyqueen or even pretty but I wouldn't anyways."
 

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Sounds like she's getting tons of ego boosts. Did you mention a relationship to her? Or did she just sense it from you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NeedToImprove

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Master Bates said:
She's f*cking ugly and has no place being picky about guys' looks.
obviously she thinks she has the right to be picky even though she looks like a miniature moby ****.
 

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Dude, Wutang said it all.

Stay away from that monster.
You came close and she vomited all her resentment towards guys on you.

This chick is bad news.
Stay away.
 

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dude i'm eating my late lunch and u post that hag's pic...OMG if i wasn't so hungry and it wasn't steak & potatoes I wouldn't finish this stuff
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LMAO that chick looks like a dude. That must really hurt being told you weren't her type by a busted up looking girl. Hey some girls just like good looking guys even if they are butt ugly themselves. I know so many ugly chicks who will only date model looking guys. These girls also always sit home alone on weekends by themselves. They have too high of standards. Hey if they want to date the hottest guys let them, they will just die alone because most likely they will never get one.
 

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yep

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Dude serioulsy how can you say looks over confidence. If that nasty scrounded pimpel faced *** monster told me i was ugly.....i would spit on her glasses and tell her its so i could look into her **** brown colored eyes better to cuss her ass out.

Now on to my point. If you actually HAD confidence, you wouldnt be getting upset if someone as hideous as this said u werent good looking. If 10 celebrities/models came up to me and said i was good looking i wouldnt care, because i have confidence.

So.....your thread has contradicted itselfs by simply stating you have no confidence therefore your trying your "luck" with looks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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*shudders*

looks like hitting her in the face with a shovel would be an improvement.

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l nearly got sick looking at this *****. Have you even talked to this dog in real life? If not how can you say that its all about the looks? If you're talking to someone over the internet the jugdement will obivously be made on you're picture. How bout you try and chat up some real life women some time and forget about some fcuking car crash survivor you met on the internet.
 

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Even if she was attractive, its not like she speaks for all women.

Everyone has varying tastes and preferences

Heck I get called cute and handsome by women, yet i havent lost my virginity yet. Know why? Cause I assumed that meant I could behave like a drooling horndog and get away with it.

You may be a 5-6 to her but a 7-8 to a much hotter girl. Your looks wont make or break you. Some girls will be highly attracted to you, Some girls will not find you attractive, and most are determined by your game. Confidence and the ability to build attraction, rapport, comfort, are way higher value to women than your looks. A lot of you guys need to realize this.
 

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That's actually true, girls will probably go out with a butt ugly guy if he has confidence. And what's also true is girls probably won't go with a guy who they think is good looking if he lacks confidence. With us, it's different, us guys base attraction on looks.
 
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